kary Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 (edited) So about a year ago I met this guy who I completely fell in love with we only had a couple months to get to know each other because he is in the army and was getting deployed over seas for 8 months, and I decided to wait for him no matter what.. the time I spent with him was the best time of my life, and after he deployed the first months were hard but he called all the time and messaged and skyped, he even talked about marriage and our future together.. we had a little bump in our relationship about 4 months after being deployed he said he wanted to marry me and to get everything ready for when he came back, well within a week after that he called me up saying he didn't want to anymore that we needed to spend more time and things were moving to fast, even though he was the one who proposed it... well he apologized and i forgave him ofcourse and realized everyone gets cold feet... we just had a fight about 2 days ago i got jealous about this girl always writing him and flirting with him and i told him how i felt and he seemed like he totally understood, and then today in the morning he called me and said he was really thankfull for me waiting for him but he didnt want to be in a relationship anymore he had been doing some "soul searching" ...and wanted to date other people?? ..... i didnt know what to say or how to react so i told him i had to go.. and i now feel horrible like im going to die... I dont know what I did wrong... im in love with him.. and what will i do when he comes back?? im so lost and confused... Edited October 19, 2011 by kary different title
jerbear Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 All you could do is consider him not accessible anymore. You have to mourn the loss and move on. There is no set time frame that he will have to come back.
Author kary Posted October 19, 2011 Author Posted October 19, 2011 I just wish I knew what I did wrong and he comes back home in about a week.. why after 8 months of waiting did he have to do this? ..
jerbear Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 It is not something you did wrong. It is just the relationship ran its course. He ended things and he wants to pursue a relationship with the other girl.
mike588 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 You did NOTHING wrong. I commend you for waiting for him. He apparently has had a change of heart. I know the pain your feeling but you really never got to know him after only a short time together, time to move on.
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