Woggle Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 I dunno what most of you would define a bitch as, but a bitch is a bitch to me. I never heard of that book, but I'd probably be inclined to disagree. I wouldn't want a relationship with a bitch. Likewise, I wouldn't want a bitch as a pet, a dog that constantly barks and bites. I will say this though, and that is that ****ing a bitch is probably one of the greatest feelings because it's like a power thing, you're putting her in her place. I don't mean to sound domineering or misogynistic. Think of it like a woman wanting to be with the bad boy. It's thrilling. Probably the only time you can slap a woman and get away with it with dirty talking (just kidding). This is true. I know this is going to sound horrible but the one time I managed to turn a hardcore man eater into a mushy doll who was willing to do anything for me was a great boost to my ego. It felt great after being in a marriage where my balls were in a vice grip.
betterdeal Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 Many of these types of women are really as soft as a jellyfish underneath that hard exterior. Most of the time it's just a suit of armor they wear in front of the world. I find that the women who on the surface seem very nice and sweet often have the most inner strength. I've noticed that too. Same goes for men.
Woggle Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 I've noticed that too. Same goes for men. Very true and does anybody notice that the ball busters are usually the type who get addicted to players and married men?
betterdeal Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 I think that's what's called "walls" in the therapeutic vernacular, isn't it? They don't get addicted so much as feel desperately that that's the best they can get and dislike being alone. A kiss with a fist is better than none, as the song goes.
serial muse Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 I was so into this book when I was in my last relationship around 2 years ago. I thought the advice was great and it worked! Why did it work? Because I was dating an emotionally unavailable jergoff who responded to half the games this book recommends you play. Now I'm in a healthy relationship with a guy that loves me and doesn't have me resort to self-help sections. Good lord I'm glad that's over. Yea - I used to be a fan but in retrospect I think the book doesn't help those in bad relationships - mostly just delay the inevitable. Yeah, I agree with this. I remember picking up this book after I discovered my ex's cheating, because I was mad. But it's really just a mix of generic "don't drop everything for a guy" advice and "be mysterious and emotionally unavailable, keep him guessing" game-playing. I suspect that in general the people who picked this book up were women who, like me, were feeling helpless and sad in bad relationships and just wanted to feel temporarily empowered by fantasizing about not caring. That's the genius of the title marketing ploy. Probably worked like a charm, too.
thatone Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 But it's really just a mix of generic "don't drop everything for a guy" advice and "be mysterious and emotionally unavailable, keep him guessing" game-playing. That's the genius of the title marketing ploy. Probably worked like a charm, too. and by logical extension... a) likes self help books? red flag b) buys into other fads and marketing ploys about behavior, appearance, etc? red flag
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