dancinbarefooted Posted May 18, 2004 Posted May 18, 2004 I need help i really want to be happy in a realationship and I know it is give and take and every relationship needs work to improve on it. My situation is my boyfriend is tight fincially he has alot of money but he always makes me pay for half of every thing even when I make less and have been struggleing if goes to get a news paper wants me pay half if he takes me out wants me to pay half there is another freind I have else where he is my granddaughters grandfather and he is willing to help me totally with any fincial worries and etc until I get on my feet he loves me wants me to have the best and you got it we have a granddaughter in common. so should I break it off with the guy I am with now and go with the other guy or stay and stuggle sherry
genie Posted May 18, 2004 Posted May 18, 2004 Read your posts and ask yourself how you would advise another to in the same situtation. The man that is taking your money is a very selfish person and does not care of your situation. It is unbelievable how some men can justify that. You're saying this man is financially stable and still expects you to pay? That is no "man".
Pyrannaste Posted May 18, 2004 Posted May 18, 2004 I think that any man (or woman!!!!) who asks his/her SO to split *anything, *even the cost of a darn newspaper*, is not worth being with. If this guy has a lot of money and you don't, it's even worse. Yeuch!!! About the oter guy.....I assume that apart from his helping you financially you must have feelings for him, or you would not consider starting a relationship with him. How did it happen that you have a granddaughter in common?
clia Posted May 18, 2004 Posted May 18, 2004 Third option: Ditch both guys and find a job where you make more money.
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