infinity8245 Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 My ex and I had been together for over four years and broke up a little over a month ago. We had left it at a point where we both hoped that it might someday work out for us. About a week ago, I found out that she had already started dating someone else, but I'm sure if she's aware that I know. While we were together, we were living together. Upon the breakup, I moved out and found a new place. This left us with a few things to sort out with the old apartment. We are just getting to that point now. Up until now, we have been in very limited contact, though I have made it clear that I want to be left alone when this is all sorted out. I told her to mail me all of my things and that we would deal with things that way. The last couple of days she has been calling me in order to sort out some of the loose ends with our old apartment. I found it strange because it seemed like the things she was calling me about was nothing that couldn't be done over text. Today, she sends me a text asking is I was on campus and to call her when I had a chance. So, I called her and said that I wasn't on campus because I had the flu (which is true). She was asking because she wanted to just give me some things without mailing them and save herself five bucks. Additionally, she lost my new address which I had texted to her a couple of days ago (I have a hard time believing she lost it). She asked if I would be around tomorrow and I said I would be on campus, but had limited availability. The one time that she would be free to pick things up from me, I said I had meetings for work (which isn't true). She then agreed to just mail me my things. I then texted her my address and she texted me back that she hopes I feel better. I don't know how to interpret all of this. I feel like her talking to me on the phone (even when she has a new boyfriend) is her trying to screw with me, validate herself, etc... I can't believe that she is over our relationship yet. Did I do the right thing in avoiding a face-to-face meeting with her?
ken_25 Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 I think you did what's best for you, and if you want to consider that the "right" thing then yes, you did.
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