2far Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 What are things you notice about attractive women when you encounter them at a bar, a store, airport, or other place?
Andy_K Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 Hair colour & length, face/smile, chest, ass, waist/hip curve. Not necessarily in that order. And depending on whether their clothing & positioning allows for each to be observed.
Author 2far Posted October 18, 2011 Author Posted October 18, 2011 I am brunette with medium length straight hair, average height, on the skinny side, small chest, small hips What would should I wear?
NXS Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 I am brunette with medium length straight hair, average height, on the skinny side, small chest, small hips What would should I wear? Do you have nice legs?
Feelin Frisky Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 Their eyes, their smiles, their "pluckiness". After that it's the usual--does she dress OK?, is her hair nice?, does she smoke? (no-no for me), does she have a decent complexion?, female shape?, feminine mannerisms?
AHardDaysNight Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 Generally, I notice a woman's eyes, smile, and facial features first. Also, nice legs, nice figure, etc.
Author 2far Posted October 18, 2011 Author Posted October 18, 2011 Thank you NSX: My legs are OK – normal I think – I work out, but all my fat seems to accumulate in my upper thighs – so I have a flat stomach, small chest and slim legs with the exception of my upper thighs which are a little bigger but not bad. Feelin Frisky: I think my shape is normal on the skinny side. But the pluckiness may be the problem – I think I appear tense or insecure to others. I think if I got more positive feedback that would help me to be more plucky and feminine.
Kamille Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 2far, while there is little you can do about your physical appearance, here's some good news: A study of attitudes and attractions has shown that men are overwhelmingly attracted to women who smile. Isn't that simple? Women, on the other hand, are attracted to men who display a proud attitude. A few guys up there pointed out that they're attracted to a woman's smile. It's as important as how good your legs look.
NXS Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 My legs are OK – normal I think – I work out, but all my fat seems to accumulate in my upper thighs – so I have a flat stomach, small chest and slim legs with the exception of my upper thighs which are a little bigger but not bad. If you have slim legs I'd suggest short dresses that reveal your legs but are not too revealing on top (both at the same time can just be too revealing). A small chest is not a problem so don't worry about it. Long hair that's not tied back is very attractive (unless it's freakishly long). Hope that helps.
NYOS Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 Facial features are usually the very first thing I notice about a woman.
Symetrical-Siren Posted October 20, 2011 Posted October 20, 2011 ...see, I am attracted to women with that original Coca-Cola bottle body shape. I'm partial to dark brown and black hair. Sometimes red heads. (Julianne Moore, Tori Amos, Monica Bellucci) That's what I typically go for. However, there are ALWAYS exceptions to every rule. I can't stand how skinny Angelina Jolie is, yet....I find her sexy. Milla Jovovich also very thin, with not much for curves but sexy as hell. Natalie Portman is pretty, but her personality gives her a sexy edge. You can't put all people inside a box. Some people just have "it". And "it" could be attitude, look, shape, and sometimes.....it can be a mystery. Have you ever been attracted to someone that is SO NOT your type, and you can't even understand WHY the hell you're even attracted to them ? Even someone you can't stand, lol.
The Tiger Posted October 20, 2011 Posted October 20, 2011 For me the face is the most important. Legs are also important and nice hair, not too poofy or anything crazy. I don't mind much if the girl doesn't have boobs. I also pay attention to how a girl carries herself. If a girl seems to lack any confidence that I think it'll be painfully hard to go after her then that's a turn off. If a girl seems like she thinks she's so hot and that you can't even look her in the eyes without her thinking you're checking her out, that is also a big turn off.
Andy_K Posted October 20, 2011 Posted October 20, 2011 Smile beats legs. I'm as shallow as the next man, but legs have never really done much for me and a cute smile does wonders.
Author 2far Posted October 24, 2011 Author Posted October 24, 2011 Yes – I hear that all the time – confidence, demeanor, walk a certain way, a certain look, a smile ... For me that is a cycle. I feel insecure about not being attractive which makes me less attractive and even more insecure. How can I break this cycle?
Alexz Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Confidence, a genuine and distinct tone to their aura which signifies a kind and unique individual, and neutral eyes (green/hazel).
Kamille Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Yes – I hear that all the time – confidence, demeanor, walk a certain way, a certain look, a smile ... For me that is a cycle. I feel insecure about not being attractive which makes me less attractive and even more insecure. How can I break this cycle? Have you ever dated before? What's your relationship history?
dasein Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 A combination of attractive physical features and sexual availability.
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