Author mr_sexxxy Posted October 19, 2011 Author Posted October 19, 2011 What are you trying to say? Maybe when girls first meet me they are expecting a sexual encounter, and then feel almost hoodwinked if I try to make things more personal, as if there were going to be an ongoing relationship.
Yamaha Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Maybe when girls first meet me they are expecting a sexual encounter, and then feel almost hoodwinked if I try to make things more personal, as if there were going to be an ongoing relationship. If this is true then they don't see you as relationship material, just hump and dump. How do you feel about that?
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 So u mean the guys u wish you can get but settle with lesser guys while fantasizing about the hotter ones Not necessarily. If I'm in love with "cute" guy I'm not going to fantasize about Hot/Super Hot guy. I may look, but I'll be satisfied with cute guy. And everyone fantasizes. It's normal. Believe it or not. It's when you act on the fantasies, you can sometimes get in trouble. And I could probably get Hot/Super Hot guy if I really wanted, but cute guy is going to be the one to have a relationship with.
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Maybe when girls first meet me they are expecting a sexual encounter, and then feel almost hoodwinked if I try to make things more personal, as if there were going to be an ongoing relationship. Oh so you're saying you are one of the Hot/Super Hot guys who girls only want to f*ck and not have a relationship with? Let's see a picture and I'll be the judge of that:p
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 If this is true then they don't see you as relationship material, just hump and dump. How do you feel about that? I would hope most girls wouldn't be about humping and dumping. If the guy is hot AND interested in getting to know them, then that would be great. Most girls would go nuts for that.
Author mr_sexxxy Posted October 19, 2011 Author Posted October 19, 2011 Oh so you're saying you are one of the Hot/Super Hot guys who girls only want to f*ck and not have a relationship with? Let's see a picture and I'll be the judge of that:p lol, well, I don't know if I can deliver the type of picture you are interested in.
USMCHokie Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 It's both appearance and behavior Cute: Baby faced or boyish, sweet personality, sex appeal Hot & super hot: Handsome, ripped body (muscles), charming, confident, nice personality, sex appeal And there are a lot more qualities for both, but I can't think of any more at the moment Hmmm, so a body is required for the hotness...?
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 lol, well, I don't know if I can deliver the type of picture you are interested in. What type of picture do you think I want? The one I posted of the ripped True Blood guy? Most men don't look like that. I know that. I'm not delusional. So lets see if you live up to your username:laugh:
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Hmmm, so a body is required for the hotness...? I think so. Doesn't have to be so ripped like the pictures of the guy I posted, but some muscles are nice. I know I'm a shallow b*tch:D
Author mr_sexxxy Posted October 19, 2011 Author Posted October 19, 2011 If I don't I'll have to change my screenname to mr. moderately sexxy, with just two x's, eh?
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 If I don't I'll have to change my screenname to mr. moderately sexxy, with just two x's, eh? Yeah you might have to. Not that my opinon should matter all that much. One girl's cute may be another girl's Mr. Sexxxxy:laugh:
Wolf18 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I don't think the women who love that vampire care about the fact that he has an exagerrated (some touches of photoshop) face, a body that can only be achieved time-wise when someone is paying you a lot of money to achieve it, or the fact that he's 6'5 , I think it's his confidence, sense of humor, and love of life. I'm sure women can sense that he'd make a very loyal boyfriend as well.
AD1980 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I don't think the women who love that vampire care about the fact that he has an exagerrated (some touches of photoshop) face, a body that can only be achieved time-wise when someone is paying you a lot of money to achieve it, or the fact that he's 6'5 , I think it's his confidence, sense of humor, and love of life. I'm sure women can sense that he'd make a very loyal boyfriend as well. i love the whole women arent as shallow or visual then Men thing Women are visual on steroids compared to Men
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I don't think the women who love that vampire care about the fact that he has an exagerrated (some touches of photoshop) face, a body that can only be achieved time-wise when someone is paying you a lot of money to achieve it, or the fact that he's 6'5 , I think it's his confidence, sense of humor, and love of life. I'm sure women can sense that he'd make a very loyal boyfriend as well. Ummmmm he's a werewolf, but that's besides the point. And yeah I'm sure he's got a personal trainer and gets a nice pay check from the show to look the way he does. God bless him. He may be shallow and narcissistic and have other horrible qualities, but he sure is nice to look at.
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 i love the whole women arent as shallow or visual then Men thing Women are visual on steroids compared to Men Women can be very shallow and very visual. I agree with that. BOTH men and women are that way.
Wolf18 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Ummmmm he's a werewolf, but that's besides the point. And yeah I'm sure he's got a personal trainer and gets a nice pay check from the show to look the way he does. God bless him. He may be shallow and narcissistic and have other horrible qualities, but he sure is nice to look at. [The woman conspiracy] Um....SHANNON SHUTUP! Remember the canned lines we recited at our last meeting...um yeah it's Hugh Jackman's smile that makes him sexy not the fact that he's 6 inches taller than average and has a professional bodybuilders look, and your werewolf is hot because of the kindness and confidence in his eyes!!! Stop giving us away or men will stop acting like we're special angels who don't care about looks[/The woman conspiracy]
Author mr_sexxxy Posted October 19, 2011 Author Posted October 19, 2011 Oh so you're saying you are one of the Hot/Super Hot guys who girls only want to f*ck and not have a relationship with? Let's see a picture and I'll be the judge of that:p Girls don't want a relationship since they assume this type of guy will cheat?
Yamaha Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 If the guy is hot AND interested in getting to know them, then that would be great. Most girls would go nuts for that. I agree. So since they seem to turn cold to him, and he is as hot as he thinks, they must not be interested in getting to know him personally.
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Girls don't want a relationship since they assume this type of guy will cheat? Yeah maybe they're afraid he will cheat. But you said these girls instantly start to dislike you. What's that about I wonder? I doubt it's only because you might look like a cheater. Maybe you give off some sort of "creep" vibe that you aren't aware of.
laotzu Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Plenty of guys have a BF% that low. It's called hitting the gym for a decade and watching what you eat.
USMCHokie Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Women can be very shallow and very visual. I agree with that. BOTH men and women are that way. I never understood why there is such a negative connotation associated with physical attraction...if you have a preference for a certain type of physical look, how is that different from having a preference for someone who is funny or someone who has a good heart? Why is the person looking for a hot body in the opposite sex looked down upon? Is it because we have greater control over the non-physical traits and shouldn't value a person based on traits that a person may not have control over...? But don't we have a degree of control over some of our own physical attributes? Just throwing it out there...I'm not encouraging that we focus on the physical traits in a person...just wondering why someone becomes shallow because they have physical preferences or even physical requirements?
AD1980 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I never understood why there is such a negative connotation associated with physical attraction...if you have a preference for a certain type of physical look, how is that different from having a preference for someone who is funny or someone who has a good heart? Why is the person looking for a hot body in the opposite sex looked down upon? Is it because we have greater control over the non-physical traits and shouldn't value a person based on traits that a person may not have control over...? But don't we have a degree of control over some of our own physical attributes? Just throwing it out there...I'm not encouraging that we focus on the physical traits in a person...just wondering why someone becomes shallow because they have physical preferences or even physical requirements? Nothign wrong with it at all its the fact women try to act houlier then thou and that Men are the shallow ones when both sexes are equally shallow
USMCHokie Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Plenty of guys have a BF% that low. It's called hitting the gym for a decade and watching what you eat. But few have the muscle mass to match said low body fat. Enter: "skinny ripped"...
Feelin Frisky Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I never understood why there is such a negative connotation associated with physical attraction...if you have a preference for a certain type of physical look, how is that different from having a preference for someone who is funny or someone who has a good heart? Why is the person looking for a hot body in the opposite sex looked down upon? Is it because we have greater control over the non-physical traits and shouldn't value a person based on traits that a person may not have control over...? But don't we have a degree of control over some of our own physical attributes? Just throwing it out there...I'm not encouraging that we focus on the physical traits in a person...just wondering why someone becomes shallow because they have physical preferences or even physical requirements? Because looks can hide a million sins but good actions speak for themselves. Someone simply bedazzled by looks is thus often looked at as a fool who likes anything shiny and values nothing that isn't.
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Here's another example of a super sexy guy. I don't know weather to put him in the "cute" or "hot" category. He's not your typical "hot" guy. I'll just say he's sexy and I'd date him in a heart beat.:love: http://www.thehunkies.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Paul-Rudd.jpg http://www.thehunkies.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/paul-paul-rudd-230263_575_809.jpg
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