HeyHey Posted May 18, 2004 Posted May 18, 2004 So my boyfriend is being really weird. He gets really distant from me every once in a while. I used to accept it, but now it makes me feel hurt. The other day he was with me and randomly said he wanted to be alone. I said okay. I left him alone. But an hour later he called me to tell me he was gonna hang out with his friend. I don't know maybe he just needed guy time. When I tried to talk to him he just said that he did not want to spend time with me at that moment and then later he wanted to chill with his friend. Today I tried to be lovey with him and he was acting as if he didn't have time to be lovey with me. When I said "hold on I want a kiss", he smiled and seemed happy. So it seems like he is happy with me, but at the same time it seems like he is not. I just want us to be happy together. It is highschool, it's not supposed to be this hard. I'm confused with the mixed signals, what's going on!!!!????
lexnmike4enomore Posted May 18, 2004 Posted May 18, 2004 I thinks that he doesn't want this to be one of those "high school sweetheart" kind of deals. He likesyou...yeah but don't make it seem like you guys are in love and you have to spend every waking moment together. Like you said ti high school. God bless you if it makes it out of HS but all I'm saying is that don't take this relationship to seriously. Its only a HS relationship. BE straight with him. Be like" how come you say u want to be alone and then go hang out with your friends"? To me it sounds like he doesn't want to be with you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you. I would just ask him straight up.
Butterfly_Queen Posted May 18, 2004 Posted May 18, 2004 Hi, being distant can be mean anything. Maybe hes happy with you but hes kinda struggling with his feeling for you as well. Could be that he really wants to be with you but hes scared, or maybe hes not for sure hes wants to be with you. I remember those HS days. Can be a very trying time. Rollarcoaster of emotions. Of course theres alot of happy times as well. I agree with lexnmike, maybe you should just come out and ask him, also don't take it to serioulsy maybe he feels you are and thats kinda scarring him. Best of luck.
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