Still have hope?..even after she said some hatefull things..

[proteinshake25]

She told me "i'll hate you forever if you ruin my current relationship" that was all the way back in march, 6 weeks post breakup. I was trying to see her for lunch, and that was her response. She did a ton of name calling. Back in may she ended one of our conversations with "you're terrible,every time I talk to you I hate you even more." I saw her back in august, and she didnt seem hatefull,more indifferent really. It's tough thinking she could just verbally abuse me then just switch to being indifferent, now it seems she has no feelings at all. I have a ton for her, being trying my best to move on,see other people,etc. But I can only remember the good memories.

[TheDovic]

I usually tell people anger is not the opposite of love, indifference is! However, she appeared to have been angry because she feared you would try and break her relationship up, so her acting like this might not mean she still has feelings for you.

 

The fact that she was indifferent towards you the last time she seen you raises concerns though, because it suggests she may be over you. Alternatively she might have been putting this on. This is what I would do if I was angry with an ex and didn't want them to ruin my new relationship!

 

Either way dude, try to move on. I know this is ridiculously difficult, but at the minute this girl doesn't seem interested!

[proteinshake25]

Thanks man good advice. She did say she'll hate me if i ruined her relationship, then the next 2 months she continue to call me and just rage and be angry, try to make me jealous,etc. I forgive her for every single thing. Never hearing sorry does hurt. I do think she has moved on now, I guess you may be right. Time for me to stop hoping.