What Are My Limits?

[dmo1124]

So I have been dating this guy for about 2 months now. We have had an amazing time (for the most part) and I strongly feel that this could be someone I could see in my future. We have amazing conversations and share so much of each other together. We have laughed together and cried. He is currently separated, moving toward a divorce. We have had sex but he has been unable to finish and he feels there is a lack of sexual chemistry, or that it comes and goes. He tells me I am beautiful, and when he said it in the moment of intercourse he told me he had never said that to another woman (not even his wife) because he never felt it before. I don't think there is no chemistry because I feel such a connection when we are together. He is very all over the place because I know his head is in a lot of places with dealing with a divorce and figuring himself out. We met on an online dating site and we immediately clicked. He contacted me first. My profile stated I was ultimately looking for something long term and his was looking for dating but nothing serious. Well, it did not turn out like that. We are still undefined. I don't want to lose this person because of the connection that we do have. I feel amazing when I am with him and I believe he feels the same way when he is with me. He is my best friend and so much more. We both just get so lost as to what to do sometimes and we are both pretty intense people. Sometimes I think we overanalyze things. There are just a lot of emotions going along with it, insecurity, fear, doubt, etc and I think this could potentially be some of the issues we have had in the bedroom. I just really need advice. Any suggestions on how to fix this situation? I know some answers may hurt because I am falling so hard for this guy but I need to hear it. I know no matter what that if it ends I will be heart broken but I am not great in relationships and I want to do the work to try if that is something that I should do. HELP!!!!