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Sunday, i hack her fb and finally found out what she have been doing, as i post in other threads we broke-up and after a week of NC she contact me and i agreed to go out. and we did and i acted friendly like i dint feel anything (but inside i was dying) i did my work perfectly she begin to be more and more curious about me asking me stuff like if i been out past weekend and with who bla bla bla .. basically wanting to know more and more of my suddenly happier person....that very day she drop me home and ask to come in herself ...i did agree ....and so WE ENDED UP HAVING SEX ..and this started up a new problem...she text me TELLING ME were she was and doing what all the stuff usually g/f do. I FOLLOW ALONG but as the weekend come up she started to be the same single person who REJECTED me. i was heart break all over again and to make things short i tried NC and fail each time and CONTACTING HER ended having sex again ....

 

I confront her and begin asking why this and why that??? and even ask her to come back with me ..she rejected me AGAIN i ask her not to contact me o wanted to move on....she kept texting and i fell again but this time i needed to know exactly why she has acting like this..

 

I HACK HER FACEBOOK ACCOUNT!!!!!!!

HURTS TOO MUCH BUT FINALLY the truthhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! and yes people she have been all over the place hanging with other guys and all lot other stuff .......bitches stuff..

 

i knew i had to confront her and i did, but it backfired as i still have feelings and she dint give a ****, i cry telling her how could she?? and the only thing she reply is i know what i have on fb ...(calmly tone)

 

we were talking again even having sex!! ,hanging out!! and i never imagine that she can be that person who behind my back .

 

i see stuff that i couldn't never forget.. im heart broken ......and to top that now their friends and familly think im a phsyco :( ....i needed to know the truth and i did but i never expect this reaction of her.....yes she cried but never admited that in her fb were this stuff makin me look like im crazy :(

 

how can she knows what i saw and act like nothing!!! AND I CANT BELIVE WHAT I SAW!!!

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hmmm can i say even after finding out the truth ur unable to let her go. your putting urself in this position like ur still sleeping with her after she broke up with you and you know shes trying to get things going with other guys.

 

if u dont have even this much self respect or self worth to see its never going to work then i think its pointless for me to even say anything.

 

let me say this if you did all she did and she did all u did would she forgive you prolly not. i wont bother to state anything else because it seems ur trying to dig ur own grave bigger.. good luck

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What exactly did you see in her FB account? I'm not well versed in "bitches stuff"....

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you know when you talk to a girl and is very flirty giving you hints that she like you ....as the other guy posted shes trying to get things going with other guys giving her number openly telling them lets go out ect ect

 

.......all kinds of a ''single girl loving male atention'' and on some conversation is her takin the initiative ........ and alot stuff you know .

 

 

this are some thing that define ''bitchess stuff''

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hmmm can i say even after finding out the truth ur unable to let her go. your putting urself in this position like ur still sleeping with her after she broke up with you and you know shes trying to get things going with other guys.

 

if u dont have even this much self respect or self worth to see its never going to work then i think its pointless for me to even say anything.

 

let me say this if you did all she did and she did all u did would she forgive you prolly not. i wont bother to state anything else because it seems ur trying to dig ur own grave bigger.. good luck

 

i couldn't agree with you more , is so hard for me to accept how shes is, this side of her i never knew, belive my friend it took me by surprise , i never ever want her back now . when i was sleeping with her i never ever knew what she have been doing behind my back .

 

the thing was she was deniying it in my face , she apparently did not belive me i hack her fb but after given her hints she breaks up saying'' i know what's on my fb and i may acting like that but inside i feel diferent'' .

 

im gratefull of my crazyness about hacking her fb if i haven't do it i would never know the truth, and that exactly what motivated me.

 

BUT IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ANYONE THAT FEELS NOT TO BE HURT BY A BRETRAYAL.

 

i imagine the situation so different in my head . i was thinking she would accepted it and then maybe ask me to forgive her. but she denied it and then acted like nothing ...which hurts me even more

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Listen man you can present w.e evidence you want but if it makes her look bad she will never accept it now. i know the feeling of betrayal but u need to realize now shes just using you man. u need to take ur life back from her and take back control. clearly she makes all the decisions it seems.

 

i say block that clown and never look back why would u want to be with someone who betrayed you?

 

u hacked her fb good now u know how she is her defense shouldnt matter. she doesnt want to look bad so she will put all the blame on you or has already.

 

i say let it go if ur serious about finding the right person. why would anyone want a person who betrays you and lies to you?

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I am in awe that you were able to hack her facebook!! I wish I could see what my ex is writing/doing on his!

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