lonelynyc Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 It has been 2 weeks to the day since conclusively I severed ties with my ex. I changed my number, she blocked me on AIM, we put up the wall with no intention of tearing it down. The 3 weeks leading up to the termination of contact was one of the worst stretches of my entire life. I was staying up all night on suicide hotlines trying to understand how someone who said they loved me so much could treat me so callously and manipulatively. Of course, in the few days following my nuclear option, I felt those slight pangs of regret... "maybe there was something worth salvaging." Well, thats gone now. She mad me miserable, completely defecated all over my heart, and I'm honestly just enjoying the feeling of being single and away from all the pain and futility of being preoccupied with her. Sure I find myself thinking about her every now and then, but in a more objective, detached way. She ended our relationship in early July. Sure, we blurred the lines a lot after that, but I have finally realized just how crazy it was for me to be attached to something that effectively ended months ago. There's light at the end of the tunnel for all of you dealing with a break up. It might not reach you for months, and you might suffer pain 100 times worse than the pain you faced the day they dropped you... but it gets better. I'm finally over being in love with someone who didn't care for me the same way. It hurts like hell and you won't want to accept it as truth for a long time, but the only way to get over your ex is to come to terms with the fact that they didn't feel for you as strongly as you did for them. I'm ready to find someone who will.
lalalandman Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 Put your hands down there. Can you feel it? You just grew a pair.
EgoJoe Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 Put your hands down there. Can you feel it? You just grew a pair. Word. Read around notice how many females dump dudes and then hang on plus apply the guilt. Notice a trend? Find yourself and be the man you want to be and you'll attract the WOMAN you deserve. They are out there and have probably seen enough ass clowns to recognize a good dude.
M2155 Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 Put your hands down there. Can you feel it? You just grew a pair. I have to find a male and some situation where I can use this line Good for you lonelynyc!
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