closecall Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Hi some background for you all . I broke up with my girl last year and i went tru hell ,it ended real bad and i was in shock to be honest, it was on the buffers for about 3 mts and we both knew it was going to end after 4 years but we we were been mature and both realised it was ending. The shock part was how it ended we were out for a drink with her male best friend ! ha yeah man its funny how it all comes out in the wash ! ! thats another story. This guy was hanging around for 4 years and to be honest i never trusted him much, my instinct told me things were not what they seemed and she alwas said he is not like that were just friends and thats what i belived she was alwas faithfull no problem anyway the night we broke up as we had this row ok back in our house .Hell!!!!!!!! now this did happen to me belive it or not !! She is drunk and starts ranting and raving and then she starts to get violent ,real violent,trowing things at me and screaming abuse !! i cant belive it what the fku is going on iam in shock !! this girl has never been like this before and she is only half my size but she goes crazy!!!!! i sit there thinking if i touch her iam the one that gets jailed if cops arrive at door so iam thinking i have to get the **** out !! i make for the door and then she hits me with a kitchen chair and next thing i feel blood running down my face !! yeah it gets worse !!! now she has her phone and is screaming for help !!!!! iam in bits ! i get the phone off her and smash it ,iam in a panic everything is out of control,with that she runs out on to the street screaming for help, so i shoot up stairs to get some things from bathroom, when iam on my knees looking for tooth brush or what ever i hear her coming up the stairs and as i turn to look she kicks me straight in the face with her big old boots !! man i really am in shock at this stage this all happned over the space of 5 mins !! anyway iam out of there and i was in some state and by the way people iam no push over have and am well able to handle my self !! but because this is the woman i loved iam in shock !!! this all happened last september. And i will continue this tale later and let you know what happened.I did have a mental breakdown but let me tell you all iam fine now and have been for the last 6 months ! peace out :laugh:
TheDovic Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Did she take any drugs on the night in question? If this was so out of character for her something must have set her off! Maybe she was spiked!!!
smudge21 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Yeah, sounds like drugs were involved. My friends ex used to go off (although not that bad) at odd times. She was on ecstacy/speed to keep her weight down and the mood swings could be nasty at times. Either way, let us know what happened as this story needs a happy ending of sorts.
Author closecall Posted October 18, 2011 Author Posted October 18, 2011 ok so to continue, did she have drug proplems ? yes she did she smokes to much weed and has taken to many E have no doubt the amount of drugs she has taken has taken its effect.But on the night in Question she was not spiked or on anything. Anyway that was the worst night of my live and things looked very dark and black.The next morning i went to the doc and he asked me what happened, i told him and he said do you really want this woman in your life? at that time i was under no circumstances wanting to have anything to do with her. Did i still love her ? yes i did and was very confused and could not belive what had happened . love is sometimes very unfair and makes you do stupid things and at that stage i just wanted to know how could she have done that to me . After all we had been tru and all the good times and bad we were vv close and you know this woman i have know all my life iam 36 she is 34 we have had an on off relationship since we were in our teens and that last time was as i said living together for a few years,I ALWAS THOUGHT WE WERE SOUL PARTNERS but that night she killed my soul . There was no going back and i had to pick up my shaddered dreams and move on. try to move on , i went back to the house the following day when i knew she would not be there and got all i my stuff with the help of a friend and i was gone. Now what do you do ? what i did was go and stay with a close cousin who put me up for a month and had time now to get my head together, the doc gave me anti deppresion pills which i toke for a month .Was i deppresed ? yes i was very. was i in contact with her over this time ? yes i was and that solved nothing ? my main Question to her via text was how could you have done that to me ? she says sorry bla bla . iam so angry with her and cant get her off my mind i think iam going crazy !!!!!!! so after a couple of months after contact as in sorting out bills etc iam coming around to thinking live is going to be ok again iam busy at work and that keeps me going , my heart is ripped out of me but iam coping as best i can and iam doing ok. IAM getting this all out of my system now because i met her a few weeks ago after no contact since that xmas . She got in contact with me so this is all fresh in my mind again and iam so so happy that we are over. it was such an insight to meet her again and not be blinded by love, yeah i do still have feelings for her but now iam not blinded . She needed some help which i gave and was happy to ,over the last few weeks we have met, talked , laughed,argued and i was just happy that we had reached an understanding about what had happened what was wrong and all the whats and wheres and whys so all is well as can be .she is not seeing anyone and either am i , i did for a few months earlier in the year but that was nothing much and no big deal, i did hear that she had hooked up with her friend that was there that night it all kicked off ! so i was right about that all along and to be honest i feel nothing other then the satisfaction that i was right and it was not my imagination , she did not two time me when we were hooked up and what she does and did we broke up is no concern of mine iam not like that.Now they dont even speak so she says. i will finish this later today peace out ;)
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