Boyfriend is acting funny

[daisydukes]

I have been going out with this guy for roughly 2 months and at work today he said you told me you wanted to see other people. I said no I didn't and he said you said you didn't like that we never saw each other besides after work and I said I never said that. He said I get it you have other men to date. We go out for pizza after work have a good time and he kisses me goodnight and then he texts me later on saying I had such a good time hanging out and eating pizza I miss you already. Does he want me to date other people?? What is he driving at?? I would ask him but he is confusing me.

[zenzen7]

What is this guy's personality like? Does he tend to beat around the bush? Or does he like to joke? It doesn't sound like he's very confrontational, but maybe he's trying to point to the fact that he thinks you're interested in other people. Like many men, he's probably a little confused by you (lol). The best option here is to ask. Simply talk about it. If he says "you said this" and you don't recall saying such a thing, don't become emotional about it or deny it or anything; just explain what you WANT. For him, his questions are driving at one thing: Am I satisfying you?

Try not to allow confusion to get in the way of what you need from him and what you are capable of giving him. Take some time to clear your head, get a picture of what you truly want, and then express yourself.

[daisydukes]

He is not very upfront at all. He loves to beat around the bush that's for sure. I got kinda angry when he said that I said No! I never said that and he said calm down we are at work. Maybe I didn't get any sleep that day he said and then like I said he said it again later on saying you have the other men to attend to and no I don't. Maybe he is self-conscious?? Maybe he thinks there are other men hitting on me??? I just thought that was kinda odd to be asking that random question when I was on my break and I never said anything to even suggest that.