ManBroDude Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 I like this lady 11 years older then me we she always made strong eye contact so I gave her my number two months later she text me she said we should meet up for dinner a couple of times so I called her talked for 20 min then I asked if she wanted to meet up on the weekend she said yes I called her twice no answer so I text her she responded then I asked if we go out on weekend she took three hours then responded she had plans..offered me to go with her friends so I shot her some texts the next day hinting I would go out with her and her friends since she offered, she changed the subject I text her today to see how her night was she told me she was cooking some food tomorrow so I joked and told her to save me some Tomorrow she is bringing me dinner to my house does she still kind of like me? or did I make her feel guilty or sorry for me? our phone conv went ok I thought but I know she didn't like it for some reason because she didn't answer her phone after anyway if you read this thank you! I really need some input on this I don't even know how to react to her tomorrow bringing me food?
january2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Thank her for the food. Offer to share some with her. Chat. See how the evening progresses. I don't think she would make the effort to go all the way to your house (with food) if she didn't like you.
Author ManBroDude Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 I planned on thanking her for the food and talking to her for a moment but, she already told me she is just dropping off the food then leaving I mean I wouldn't ask her to stay over right away like that. I wouldn't want to creep her out.
joseph17 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Sounds to me that she is doing something for you so take the opportunity to invite her in and see where it goes from there. If she doesn't come in then I think you are in the friend zone and need to see what you can do to get out of it. But definitly take this opportunity to strike up conversation and see if she will come in or shoot go eat it outside with her. Make a little picnic out of it or something like that and show that you want her there with you. Good luck
Author ManBroDude Posted October 18, 2011 Author Posted October 18, 2011 Well I still don't know she came over tonight and brought the dinner I met her in my driveway and talked for a couple of minutes we smiled and kept eye contact Then she said she had to go I cracked a joke and she laughed and said that was cute I gave her a hug and she left.
Author ManBroDude Posted October 18, 2011 Author Posted October 18, 2011 Being she offered me to go out twice then changed her mind for some reason I should just play it cool call her and thank her again for the food talk for a couple minutes? I won't try to ask her out again unless she really hints for it or our conversation starts going really well. She still really made my night.. I like her a lot (I know I'm way over-thinking this)
joseph17 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Who knows what happened those two times she canceled. She brought you food which is cool and she did some over and stick to her commitment even if it was short.She is an older woman so this is going to be different then women your age. It's gonna take you some time to break down her barriers for what ever has happened to her or reasons she has those barriers up so keep workin at it. Thanking her for the food is okay oh and you did get a hug out of it so that is something. Just don't seem to needy and still date other girls
flitzanu Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 firstly, saying "11 years older" doesn't mean anything without your age, but you sound young. she's broken plans with you multiple times, brought food to your driveway and to me, doesn't seem to be showing much interest at all in hanging out with you. sounds like she's trying to be polite. i'd bet if you don't contact her in a week...she won't contact you either. that would certainly answer your questions.
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