curtisrandles93 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 hey guys So me and my girlfriend were going out for a year and a half and broke up on our year and a half anniversary so to speak. Its absolutley broken my heart and now I feel like I have nothing in life. Im 18 and my friends and family tell me theres plently more fish in the sea but for me this girl was my life and I would do anything to get back with her. We were mailing each other and she says she doesnt THINK she could ever have those kind of feelings for me again but that we could be friends but she needs time and space. its now been 8 days since we broke up and everyday is a constant struggle, the hardest part being in the house with absolutely nothing to do during the week. Anyway if theres any advice any could give me that would be great cheers guys Curtis
Buttercup84 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Hi there Welcome and sorry for your heartbreak. Do not contact her anymore , I know it will be hell but it is for the best.Take it from me , I broke contact so many times and it made me feel so much worse. And please do something with yourself at home.Do you have a job ? do a course , volunteer , get a new hobby . I work during the week so weekends are my worst. So I have started to paint , went back to Uni and am reading a lot. I also joined a gym and try and see my friends as much as possible .
Chi townD Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 . And please do something with yourself at home.Do you have a job ? do a course , volunteer , get a new hobby . I work during the week so weekends are my worst. So I have started to paint , went back to Uni and am reading a lot. I also joined a gym and try and see my friends as much as possible . Nail on head. Get busy making positive chances in your life. And don't fall for the " I hope we can still be friends" crap. She broke it off with you. She made a choice to have you out of her life, so you should honor that. SHe either has 100% of you or nothing at all. Go NC. Is it gonna be hard? YEP! Not gonna lie. But you can get through this. One day at a time. One morning you'll wake up and she won't be the first thing on your mind. Then, you know you're healing.
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