Metsmets Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 This situation is somewhat unique. I have known this girl for 3 years , the 1.5 were as lovers and the last half was as what I would say best friends. I don't think either of us really ever got closure. During our best friend stage she seemed to want to be with me even asking me if someday we would get engaged. I guess I just wasn't ready and respected her by not leading her on. I always thought I would Be with her but for some reason the timing was off. When I decided to move forward with the relationship it was too late- unbenowst to me she began dating someone 2 months ago - figuring we had moved on as friends- I don't blame her. After a big talk which was pretty intense- she told me she would think about it. I know she loves me and I want to be with her - always have. Here we are two weeks later and nothing yet. We have hung out a couple of times and things are great, there is also lots of contact ( text ,phone). I got a bit upset with her the yesterday when I felt like she was being needy and playing games. She told me she felt to much pressure and said she loved me and is afraid of losing me. I told her I was going to move on but she said I couldn't without telling her.. I have ample chances to hang out with her, which is a good sign and can't be good for this new 2 month relationship. I have no idea what to do! can this go on? It is driving me crazy.
january2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 It sounds like neither of you know what you want - that's probably why it seems complicated and confusing. I think you both need to step back and think if you want to be together or not. And if you do, to both stop playing games and make a good go of it.
joseph17 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 I agree with January in the fact that you feel confused because you don't know what you want or even worse what she wants. I wouldn't let her dating this other guy if you to are still in contact a lot. If I were you though when you get a chance to hang out with her do it. You have some competition whether you like it or not. So if you want this girl go get her and don't let this other guy bother you.
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