gorilla07 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Long story short there's a girl i work with and she just started there, we're friends on facebook and stuff. She's in my mind a 11 outta 10 as far as looks goes. would it sound cheezy to start out a conversation on facebook?
WhiteChocolate Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 It's not "cheezy" to start a conversation on fb. It's outright lame. You work with her; ask her out in person!! That being said, if the choice is between starting a conversation on fb and not talking to her at all, then go ahead and talk to her on fb.
Author gorilla07 Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 It's not "cheezy" to start a conversation on fb. It's outright lame. You work with her; ask her out in person!! That being said, if the choice is between starting a conversation on fb and not talking to her at all, then go ahead and talk to her on fb. I guess the only reason why i say that is cuz im just a little shy..and more or less just using sending the message over facebook as breaking the ice
Imageiko Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Since you see each other regularly in person you're going to shoot yourself in the foot if you try anything on facebook before in person. It's going to come off as really creepy.
jean2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 i dont think it hurts to get to know each other better on fbook. your confidence builds through the mask of multimedia. however, bring up inside jokes from your online conversation so that you have something to talk about in person. and when you go to ask her out, do it in person. fbook is okay to use as a crutch in the begining, but you should slowly decrease use of it to communicate with her.
Author gorilla07 Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 Since you see each other regularly in person you're going to shoot yourself in the foot if you try anything on facebook before in person. It's going to come off as really creepy. I wouldnt say i see her regularly. maybe 2 or 3 times per week since we're in different parts of the building.
Imageiko Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 I wouldnt say i see her regularly. maybe 2 or 3 times per week since we're in different parts of the building. That seems pretty regular to me.... In this situation you can't hide behind a computer and not come off as a bit weird imo. You really have to build a rappaport in person. It's actually easier believe it or not and she'll be more comfortable with you faster.
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