ChelseaLS Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 I am just curious if anyone on here has any stories of successful second chances or second chances at all. I love the support on this forum, but I'd like to hear some positive success stories. Tell me there are some...
John123 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 I just got broken up with after two years by the most amazing girl i'll ever meet. I am in the same boat as you wanting some hope that she will come back. I can tell you that if you treated her the best you possibly could, she will realize it eventually. Just work on yourself and making yourself better (physically as well). This has given me hope: I was out a few weeks ago and my ex from two years ago comes out of nowhere and starts talking to me. i haven't seen this girl in a year and a half. We talked for a little bit and I went away to go over to my friends. She comes back maybe 20 min later asking if I want to dance, I politely said no thanks. She then proceeded to talk to my brother about how I just "hardcore denied her." I wasn't even doing it because of that, I honestly just didn't feel like dancing. This girl broke up with me btw. I know have a full time job, great pay, benefits, and have gotten much more physically attractive since then. She was texting me the other night and she would not let me go. I said goodnight at least 4 times and she continued the conversation. If I wanted this girl back, she would be mine in a second. I don't however, I want my recent ex back, and that's what I'm planning on doing. It may take time, but they will realize what they lost eventually.
joseph17 Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 I got back with my ex wife after being separated for 6 months and we made it work....for about a year. Then she got hooked on drugs and spent all my rent money on drugs. Then I took my kids and left state and am know working on getting full custody(which I should have NO problem). So yes we did get back together just to end up falling apart. Hope this helps any
Author ChelseaLS Posted October 18, 2011 Author Posted October 18, 2011 Well thats depressing Joseph...I mean I was excited at first... and then I read on. However it still is a hopeful story. After all if the drugs weren't an issue you may still be together today. I like how you didn't stick around with the kids with the drugs involved. She needs to love herself, before she can love anyone else. Thanks for the stories guys.
Author ChelseaLS Posted October 18, 2011 Author Posted October 18, 2011 I got back with my ex wife after being separated for 6 months and we made it work....for about a year. Then she got hooked on drugs and spent all my rent money on drugs. Then I took my kids and left state and am know working on getting full custody(which I should have NO problem). So yes we did get back together just to end up falling apart. Hope this helps any I am guessing you guys lived together and then one of you moved out for 6 months? I am about to move out for a 6 month break with my boyfriend. I am nervous because it feels so final. But it sounds like it doesn't have to be. Our decision to take a break wasn't messy or anything, so I guess that is why I keep a bit of hope alive.
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