Dumped by text message before I could tell him I'm pregnant

[itshardbeingafox]

I've posted a few times about my boyfriend.... well now ex, who was my friend for 5 years, who I started dating.. Has a 3 year old son, who I'm crazy about.

He's been sick for the past week, and I'd been so concerned about him since he has full custody of his son, works over full time, and seemed deathly ill by way he described it.

I messaged him today, just checking on him, seeing if he got anything from the doctor etc. He messages back " thanks for checking on me". I had a reason to contact him today and ask to speak. I know he's been sick so I haven't pushed the whole lets chat on the phone thing this week, not that I ever have.

I didn't get my period on the 29th. I decided to wait it out, it will come.... it always comes. Nope, not this time. I'm on the shot, we used protection so no we weren't irresponsible. I'm 27, I'm buying my first home, I own my own company, and now I'm pregnant by my ex boyfriend ex friend who decided to dump me today by text message when I said I needed to talk to him for just a moment. He said he was sorry and that he just can't handle a relationship right now with how busy and hectic his life is and his son needs him 100% of the time since his mother is gone and it's not fair to me to have a vacant bf.

I just didn't know what to say to that. I said I bought you some cough drops and your son those alphabet things he wanted and his response was ..... I may regret this decision BUT....

How am I supposed to follow up with that. Awesome thanks btw ......... we're screwed.

Someone help me. I was crazy over him and his son. I was thrilled with the idea of them moving in one day and me helping him raise his son.... neither one of us wanted kids, he didn't want anymore, and I didn't want any of my own. Now what am I supposed to say. How do I say that to him.

How dumb must I be to be worried right now about him and his stress.