lovesick57 Posted October 16, 2011 Posted October 16, 2011 I've been seeing a man for five months and we are in our mid 50's. We cuddle, hug each other hello and good-bye and small kisses. He will reach for my hand and put his arm around me. We've had sex a couple of time and he has had no problem. Both of us have been divorced for 20 years and both of us have not had a realationship in 3 years. He done the pursing, calling and texting. We see each other twice a week. When I asked him why the lack of "romance", he stated he just didn't know if he had romatic feelings towards me and did not want to have sex or too much display of affection until he figured out his feelings. We are exclusive. He doesn't want to see anyone else. I asked him if he wanted his space until he figures out his feelings and he once again stated no. I know I have two options. One forget him and two hand in there until he figures things out. This is a first for me. I've never heard this one before. Okay men. Please give your opinions. I've read and it looks like it's a 50/50 chance that he will develop feelings or not. Why would he continue to hang out with me without "benefits"?
Author lovesick57 Posted October 16, 2011 Author Posted October 16, 2011 I would just like to add that I have excellent hygene, I'm gainfully employed, have all my own teeth and I'm of average weight - just what the good doctor ordered!
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