fortyninethousand322 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 I fit that description. I do repulse women? Well first how old are you? And second, probably not ALL women, but many don't like do not like the guys that I described. LS is full of posters who fit the description but who find dating about as easy as winning the lottery.
michelleishere Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 I have crooked teeth. They are white but I'm self concious. I can't afford braces, I'm 19 By the way. People have said they are fine and not noticable but I am just worried. The picture makes them look worse. I take care of them and they are whiter. http://i1224.photobucket.com/albums/ee377/mikekovacs1/IMG_20110926_142209.jpg Are they bad? Your teeth are fine... I have seen far worse
alphamale Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Are they bad? if you live in the UK then they are fine
Nexus One Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 (edited) With that and school it will cost 15,000. I can't afford that Focus on things you can do for free first, like exercising at home and outside. Once you start making money after your education, then perhaps invest in some braces and a whitening treatment. Youtube has many great videos on exercises to tone you muscles. The one I follow is the light version of the 300 workout. The following video talks about the heavy version of the workout, but it involves vomiting due to the intensity and while I have have pushed that hard in the past, I'm satisfied with NOT VOMITING, so that's why I'm on the light version, but I do combine it with cardio (i.e. running) : http://bit.ly/oy6PjK To see what it can do for you when you're really dedicated see the following photos. Note that it's NOT me in those photos, but it's a guy from a fitness forum that's on the heavy version of the 300 workout routine. Note that it's not easy to get ripped in a matter of weeks, that takes a lot of dedication. It means intense training for at least 6 hours a day 5 days a week: http://bit.ly/qp1aYt It's possible to train for free, but it requires dedication to see results. In my opinion you do have a lot of potential. Imagine yourself with contacts or trendy glasses like this http://bit.ly/hYEoAZ , a trendy hair style, a ripped figure and stylish clothes, but you also need a change in the way you think. Confidence is attractive. Think positive and think optimistic. Edited October 17, 2011 by Nexus One
thehead Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Focus on things you can do for free first, like exercising at home and outside. Once you start making money after your education, then perhaps invest in some braces and a whitening treatment. way you think... ^I agree with this part especially. Changing your body for better will make a larger impact than your teeth. While they're not horrendous, there's room for improvement starting with some whitening, then braces.
Author MikeyK Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 Well first how old are you? And second, probably not ALL women, but many don't like do not like the guys that I described. LS is full of posters who fit the description but who find dating about as easy as winning the lottery. I'm 19 years old. Why don't women like the nice guys do they like to be abused
LexiB Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 As much of a stickler as I am about teeth, I'm going to say that they're actually not that bad. Reason being, most of the damage is on the bottom which generally isn't readily visible to the public. The top row is most important and you only have one tooth that's slightly off there. So yeah, I think you're ok. As others said, if it really bothers you, definitely get braces. Since cost is an issue, you might want to invest in just getting the top row taken care of first. You don't have to do upper and lower braces simultaneously.
Author MikeyK Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 Thanks lexxi for your comment. should I stop being a nice Guy?? I. Have had a girl as a friend until I realized she was laughing at me. She said earlier that she considered me her brother. Is that all I will get etc is friends? Is it done for me? How to change?
Ross MwcFan Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 They don't look that bad at all. I can't understand how anyone could be turned off by crooked teeth. Sometimes I think they can look cute on a girl.
CarrieT Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Is it done for me? How to change? In this and the other threads you are in, you have been given LOTS of suggestions on things you can do to change. The continual asking of the same question won't help. Start to make the changes that have been suggested and then start reporting back; but to ask the same question over and over is not beneficial to you and those who offer assistance will grow annoyed and ignore you.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Crooked teeth don't turn me off. They can be kind of charming in their imperfectness and make a guy seem a bit vunerable. I don't mind them at all.
FitChick Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Jay Leno talks about his crooked teeth. It never hurt his career as a comedian. Why not schedule a consultation with an orthodontist to see how much it would cost and what your options are? It's more than a mouth full of silver these days, there are less visible braces as well as bonding and veneers as cosmetic fixes. I think your teeth are crowded and some will have to be pulled. See what the doc says.
alphamale Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Jay Leno talks about his crooked teeth. It never hurt his career as a comedian. if he didn't have ca$h he wouldn't even be able to get laid - that's how horrid he looks
Author MikeyK Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 Carrie, I listen to everythong ands write it down. I'm looking. To better myself Next thing, I'm a nice Guy. Should I work on changing it because i hear girls like a&*holes
CarrieT Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Next thing, I'm a nice Guy. Should I work on changing it because i hear girls like a&*holes Girls like guys who are true to themselves. Don't try and be something you are not; it will show and be obvious and thus a turn-off.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Women don't like assh*les. And women don't like "nice guys". They like "GOOD MEN". yes, there is an important and distinct difference between these three catagories.
Author MikeyK Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 Women don't like assh*les. And women don't like "nice guys". They like "GOOD MEN". yes, there is an important and distinct difference between these three catagories. What is the difference?
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 Assh*les pretend to be confident and self assured but the reality is that they are insecure and use the hint of being a good man to manipulate women. In effect, they have used a different method on the opposite end of the spectrum to cover up their own inadequacies compared to "nice guys" or "doormats". While for a short time the illusion they use to attract women works, long term their true colors come out. They are the perfect balance of manipulation and giving a girl just enough to think that she could be important to him without actually giving her anything at all. Usually younger women are more prone to this because they are less experienced and don't understand the game. I.E. Charlie Sheen. Nice guys, use a ploy that goes on the opposite end of the spectrum and think if they are supplicating enough, that a girl should just take off her blouse in gratitude. When that 'doesn't happen, "nice guys" complain about how awful women are because they think being "nice" as a guy is good enough while never admitting that being "nice" as a girl probably isn't even enough to spark their interest in a girl. Being "nice" alone should never be enough to get someone because honestly being just "nice" in a man or woman doesn't speak about all the other facates that go into a relationship. Nice guys expect women to define their worth for them. I don't really have any hollywood examples of a nice guy but if any other ladies do, they are free to chip in. Good men act with integrity toward both women and men alike. They do not have to manipulate women into believing things about them because they know who they are and they live by respect and a natural power toward others and themselves. They stand up for what is right and they don't use people as a means to themselves somewhere. They don't run to women expecting women to answer any questions they have about their worth. Neither do they think women are less then themselves. I.E. Paul Newman.
FrustratedStandards Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 It's not that bad. If you're conscious about your teeth, other people will notice them more. Be careless, laugh and smile. People won't care. Trust me.
Author MikeyK Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 I treat everyone as my equal and better than myself. I dont have enough confidence to talk to girls. I am almost honest about myself, if I wasnt I wouldnt be posting all this stuff on here. I dont manipulate or lie to anyone. What should I change and how can I do it?
Author MikeyK Posted October 19, 2011 Author Posted October 19, 2011 These are my list of problems: Small hands teeth penis size no muscles excess/loose fat around the stomach from the weight loss personality.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Why would you treat others better then yourself? There is a difference between treating others well and putting other people on a pedestal because of a personal belief on yourself. Taking women and dating out of the equation for a while MikeyK. Do things for yourself. Figure out who you are and what you like and work on the things you might not like that you can change. Don't worry about women for a while or if you meet their standards. It's not going to help you. You need to figure out who you are. And It doesn't sound like you do right now.
CarrieT Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 What should I change and how can I do it? Learn to love yourself first. Women aren't interested in men who have such rampant self-esteem issues. You aren't going to be of interest to anyone until you learn to become more secure in your own skin. Men and women alike are drawn to others who are confident and happy with themselves. THAT is what you have to change; not your teeth, not your weight, not those physical things you keep harping on - but your whole self-esteem and psyche. Work on becoming comfortable with who you are first before you can offer yourself to another.
Author MikeyK Posted October 19, 2011 Author Posted October 19, 2011 Thanks guys, I'm really concerned about my size. O can tell you the measurements of you want shin. I need to knoow if its good bad or laughable
CarrieT Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Thanks guys, I'm really concerned about my size. O can tell you the measurements of you want shin. I need to knoow if its good bad or laughable Good is 5 1/2" and above. Bad is 4" to 5" Laughable is 2 1/2"
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