sydneysider1978 Posted October 16, 2011 Posted October 16, 2011 Hi guys, I've a little dilemma which i could do with some help on. I know this man (we're both in our thirties) from my local sports club. We get along and i find him really attractive. I hadn't seen him around for a while bumped into him and was reminded of how much i liked him. He was about to go on holiday and i was feeling brave so sent him an email just saying hey, great to see you, let's catch up when you get back. He replied straight away saying it was good to see me too and we should definitely get a coffee when he's back and signed off with a kiss. Two weeks later, he'd just arrived back in the country and ran into him again at the sports club for a meeting. He asked me to stay to watch a game in the bar. For the whole match he was talking just to me and it felt pretty cosy / flirty. He wanted me to come along to another bar but I had to get to a dinner with friends. Now I'm on holiday for two weeks, should i ask him out when get back? Or have i implied enough interest here and should look for him to initiate?
Feelin Frisky Posted October 16, 2011 Posted October 16, 2011 Hi guys, I've a little dilemma which i could do with some help on. I know this man (we're both in our thirties) from my local sports club. We get along and i find him really attractive. I hadn't seen him around for a while bumped into him and was reminded of how much i liked him. He was about to go on holiday and i was feeling brave so sent him an email just saying hey, great to see you, let's catch up when you get back. He replied straight away saying it was good to see me too and we should definitely get a coffee when he's back and signed off with a kiss. Two weeks later, he'd just arrived back in the country and ran into him again at the sports club for a meeting. He asked me to stay to watch a game in the bar. For the whole match he was talking just to me and it felt pretty cosy / flirty. He wanted me to come along to another bar but I had to get to a dinner with friends. Now I'm on holiday for two weeks, should i ask him out when get back? Or have i implied enough interest here and should look for him to initiate? Just get back in touch first. He may initiate. He could also very well blow you off as if he never spoke before in which case you'd be off-balance asking him out. Prepare for all contingencies in your head--there aren't that many. If he's chatty but doesn't ask you out, then take the initiative if you want to move things along quicker with him. Perhaps you've already made a strong impression on him and he'll be looking forward to your return. I hope that's so. Enjoy.
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