formybrokenheart Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 I am stuck, I have been living with the same person for 20 years and 3 years ago all intimate contact stopped. I don't really care about that, I don't want him anymore. But I do want intimacy, I miss it, I need it, and I deserve it. I want and need to leave but can't afford to. I am the main wage earner in the household so I never have enough to pay bills and take care of things and put a down payment on a place not to mention utility deposits and the like. There is no opportunity to save any money. I have dogs that I do not want to leave without care and he is not regularly employed. I want to see other men but I feel weird and sure they would feel that way to when I am still living with this person. We do not sleep in the same room. He has told me it is not a crime if I am seeing other men. He indicated he thought I was probably having sex with someone but I haven't been. I don't know if he means it because some people will say they don't care about things but they really do, then they get hurt.
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