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Well hi again folks. I haven't posted for about a year. In that year I did decide to move in with my boyfriend after dating for 2 years. In a nutshell it was not bliss but not bad either. I had told him that I love him and I was interested in having a life with him . I told him that I would not stay for over 6 months without a proposal and he agreed that it would be ridiculous to wait that long and he wanted to marry me.

 

Welp five months later I had a talk with him after he had not brought it up. He asked what the rush was and that there were no tax benefits to getting married in this day and age. I said ya cause it's all about the financial benefits!! grrrrrr! He just kept saying he would do it when it felt right and when I asked him when that may be he could not answer me straight. After more than 2 years I was not happy with this. SO I'm packing my stuff today. It was always push or pull with us. First he wanted me to move in and I said no and then as soon as he got a female roommate I was livid and I figured to get her out I would move in...Effed up right?! I don't know what came over me.

 

Packing my stuff this morning he asked if I wanted to go to breakfast with him and I said no. He said he loved me and I did not have to leave. I told him I did. He said maybe we can still see each other. I just cried.

 

Even though I screwed up and made all the wrong moves it still hurts so I guess I'm throwing this out there....movers will be here tomorrow.....

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I'm sorry it didn't work out and that you're back here again.

 

You probably know the drill about NC.

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