rie39 Posted October 16, 2011 Posted October 16, 2011 Were these women shy? Some people find it hard to initiate conversations or ask questions because they are shy, and come across as rude, but this doesn't mean they're not interested. Perhaps these women didn't realise they were coming across as uninterested.
louise_23 Posted October 16, 2011 Posted October 16, 2011 ....they will go out with you. There was this woman I just met online, we are into the same interests that most nerds are into. When we had been talking, I've noticed she'd answer all my questions about herself, but she hadn't asked one question about me, personally. Is just a person's way of communicating? Or do they just not care? I recall a date I went out with a woman, and she was mostly talking about herself the entire time (yeah, the theory is right....LET a woman talk about herself, they love that) But the catch is, they might not give a crap about you. I mentioned to the previous date, "You know, you haven't asked a question about me, is there anythign you'd like to know?" ANd she said, "Well, I typically don't ask about others because they'll eventually volunteer the info anyway." So, what do you think? A cavelier attitude or just their style of conversation? im a bit like her actually. i dont want to pry, or seem nosy. i figure if they want to share something with me, they will. the main question i ask is how are you? and maybe if someone asks me a question, ie "what did you do yesterday?" ill answer and then say what about you? kind of thing. but yeah. i think some of us are just like that.
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