rubberball Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 I went to her office yesterday on business and saw her and we spoke for a moment. I ended up in a closed door meeting with her boss. A couple people came and knocked and we answered them. towards the end she came up knocked and walked right in. After that I left. went back to my office. She called me that evening to make sure I was okay... She said she didnt get a chance to talk with me, when I was there. She told me about what has been going on in her life, that since the breakup she had gotten lazy with her dogs and they are getting fat. She said that she has been spending a lot of time outside and she is giving the kids a lot of extra time. She said she needs them more then they need her. It thought that was an interesting comment. I think she kinda asked me if we would be interested in going to the dog park this morning. I said I need to take my dog there at some point this weekend. This was the first time I have spoken to her in 2 weeks *broke up 2 months* - this is just bread crumbs right?
triphopper414 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 She could be missing you or she could miss your friendship. Feeling like you lost a friend is the tough part? Do you want to get back with her? If so, I would play it cool and not go with her to the dog park, it could give you false hope. However, if you bump into her there, exchange pleasantries and move to another area.
TheDovic Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 It's hard to tell if it's a breadcrumb, but the worst thing you can do either way is being too available! Don't answer calls every time, wait a while before texting / emailing back etc and don't tell her all about your life (keep them guessing)... In short, raise your value by appearing to have a life without them
Author rubberball Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 She has called my office every Friday for the last 3 weeks. This is the first time I have answered. I didnt tell her anything about what have been doing, she just started talking about her stuff. Thinking back it felt alike she was fishing to see if I was going to be around this weekend. When I did see her yesterday I could tell that I am not over her.
M2155 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 I don't know, I have to lean toward you make a better decision when you have had time to get over being too emotionally attached. It takes a long time sometimes to replace/fill the love/friendship you are used to or realize you are content without it, I'm sure you ex is experiencing that. I read your post because I had an ex that would call to check on me (he literally said that why he was calling). To this day I really don't know what that meant, I don't think he was serious like he couldn't let go becase he always tried to play it casual. It was like he was feeling me out or making sure I wasn't with someone new. I've never felt the urge to "check on" any of my exes so that one always threw me for a loop.
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