Sugarkane Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Just wondering as this has happened to someone on here recently. How weird is that? Especially as dumpers seem to be happy with someone else, almost straight away. Why would a dumper go on a forum about breakups? Aren't they over us?
BrettLost Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Hi Sugarkane, I've been wondering for a different reason... As in maybe they found our little secret coping site, our many posts regarding their absurd behaviour and blow your cover bigtime... I stupidly used my name in my username.... I asked admin to change it.... Yet I still post cos fck it, its all tru, its helped me thru *****. To find her on here seeking her own advice....don't know whether id help or not. Be a nice story though.
Buttercup84 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Oh , where did that happen ? Maybe the ex is trying to get over the breakup too , so they came on here . Or they googled their ex , maybe their ex uses the sane username for lots of things .
BrettLost Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 I have'nt been found out on here, but another poster's ex did find them, signed up and posted their version of events.
BrettLost Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 I just noted that all above posters joined in 2011...... What a crap bloody year. Year of sh*t. Wonder how many more discovered this place this year?
Buttercup84 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 I just noted that all above posters joined in 2011...... What a crap bloody year. Year of sh*t. Wonder how many more discovered this place this year? **** yeah .I can't wait for 2012 . 2011 has been the worst year so far .
triphopper414 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 I think it would be difficult for an ex to find someone on here unless they were lookign for that type of information and if they knew that the person had visited this forum before and knew their screen name. I think it would be difficult to pick out a particular story about an ex unless the situation was truly unique as a lot of us are going through the same thing.
solobeary Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 I just noted that all above posters joined in 2011...... What a crap bloody year. Year of sh*t. Wonder how many more discovered this place this year? Another August 2011 joiner here January will be good. End of 2011, and holiday season over. As for the original question, I find it highly unlikely my ex would come on here. I did stumble across the "confrontation" thread once with the two exes, but I can't find it now, sorry. It was just messy, as you'd expect.
stargirl259 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 **** yeah .I can't wait for 2012 . 2011 has been the worst year so far . Same here, can't wait for 2012, has to be better than this year right?
TheDovic Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 **** yeah .I can't wait for 2012 . 2011 has been the worst year so far . Correct... I hate 2011!!!!!! Ps, doubt ex would see us on this site. First off, a lot are in rebound relationships, plus most of us use nicknames! Unless your name is Sugarkane lol
mike111 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Just wondering as this has happened to someone on here recently. How weird is that? Especially as dumpers seem to be happy with someone else, almost straight away. Why would a dumper go on a forum about breakups? Aren't they over us? I wondered about this myself. The web is so big now, but google is a good search engine. I guess if one wants to avoid that, be careful not to post real names and locations and times and places. Don't post things like, "went surfing with 'so and so' at west palm beach on Friday October 4th. got chased by a shark. news media was there! Got to tell my story. It was exciting, but I still love my ex..."
mike111 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Same here, can't wait for 2012, has to be better than this year right? I wish it was xmas now, so we can just get this blasted year over with. mike
Kamila Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Just wondering as this has happened to someone on here recently. How weird is that? Especially as dumpers seem to be happy with someone else, almost straight away. Why would a dumper go on a forum about breakups? Aren't they over us? There is a big difference between the break-up moment and the post break-up period. At the moment you feel relieved of breaking up with your partner, but then comes the pain, the heartache and the regrets. And forums are a good way to vent and process the break-up. The dumper could have regrets and needs to find a way to cope with those emotions of letting go. Wait a minute, I'm a dumper too....................
Marianis Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 hope hi doesnt find me here!! when i joined the site i didnt think to much about my username so.. anyone that knows me could find me here since my friends call me that way.. damm it!
Zabs Posted October 16, 2011 Posted October 16, 2011 I'd be more bothered about picture tbh! Some of the ones are genuine aren't they? lol I act my life through deception most of the time because I am quite suspicious of people and their motives...hence I saw my ex's fb thing today and he has subscribed to Mark Zuckerman's stuff...can't see why you'd do that unless you wanted to pick the brains of a master...the penny has finally dropped how he managed to hack into my old fb and e-mail Zabsxx
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