lostsoul123 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 can girls be like guys and use for sex, after the break up we had sex few times but the very next day she acted like a single behavior. it is possible that she after 6 years she can have sex with me and still move on??
mike111 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 I think with 6 years in a relationship, there had to be something more than just sex. mike
TheDovic Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Yes, I imagine girls miss having sex too, plus many might just miss the intimacy!!!
Author lostsoul123 Posted October 16, 2011 Author Posted October 16, 2011 (edited) there were not long period of time without sex she was my gf we broke up then try to be friends, it was like we were friends but everytime we see each other, we have sex... even i counldn't control my emotions and ask her why she do this if dont want to be with me.... she says she missed me and said: ''cant keep my hands of you'' but the very next day she hangs out. the last time i told her ''i want to be with you '' ..she told me.. ''yes i feel for you and yes i missed you but i that ignore and get busy'' ''i want to be alone im more relaxed this way im even improving on university and then im with you i cant even concentrate on my studies.'' this was the last time i broke NC out of stupid rumors that got me jealous. from that day she text me stuff that i ignore and she even got jealous of some female friends which got me thinking ... why get jealous if she dosent want to be with me??? and that doubt make me break NC to get an explanation.... i fail , she dint give me any reason just told me ''my bad i wont happen again'' and i reply ''ok if you dont want with me why bother doing that'' .... and i did the unthinkable i ask her...... ''is that want you want for real are you sure you dont want to be with me'' ...she reply.. '' lets leave it there'' Edited October 16, 2011 by lostsoul123
ChelseaLS Posted October 16, 2011 Posted October 16, 2011 Lost - keep in mind that she has been in a relationship with YOU for 6 years... she is comfortable with you, she knows your arms, she feels safe. In no means is okay to confuse your emotions. She is confused and doesn't know how to deal. Do yourself (and her) a favour and stop sleeping with her. Neither of you are getting any further ahead.. you're just repeating the diseased cycle. If you want to be together, you need to start with yourself. Be happy with you (and her happy with herself).
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