health Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 -number of years/months together- -number of years/months broken up- -number of times broken up- -who had the final say in the break up- -do you miss him/her?- Eg. -We we're together for 5 years 4 months -we've been broken up for almost 3 years now -We only broke up once before- -I broke up with her - and she rebounded 3 days later - I don;t miss her, but some days like today I obsess about her lol I've been with other girls since, but I have problems shaking her out of my mind.
R32 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 - We were together 4 years - Been "officially" broken up for 6 months. - I broke up with her once before for cheating. - She broke up with me this time, I had the final say goodbye though since she wanted to remain in contact. - Miss that stupid bich everyday.
69ways Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 -4,5 years -9 months since break up -many but for a couple of hours , due to LDR -She left me this time -Every second, she is the other me
fucpcg Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Together 11 months Me 41, her 40 Split apart 8 months She ended it, with venom Hardly a minute passes that I don't think of her After two months of dating I told her we are thru i'll never go out with you again. For two months her excessive drinking, and her desire to blow me off for her 25 year old party girlfriends, and her nasty texts she would shoot me when drunk, made her the worst girlfriend I've ever had. I talked to he her endlessly about no interest in that kind of lifestlye, to which her response would be she doesn't want it anymore either, yet nothing changed. After a day of her binge drinking and nasty texts, I had enough and told her never contact me again. 8am the next morning my phone is blowing up with apologies.... because I was already attached to her wonderful 3 young boys, and because she was really a sweet girl when sober, after a week apart I accepted a meeting with her. Told her as long as you quit drinking 100%, i'll get back together. Any slip ups, I'm gone. For the next 8 months she was most amazing girlfriend ever, and I know I was amazing to her and her children, raising like they were my own. The last couple months though I was quite hard on her, unknowingly. Kind of like the fear that the other shoe would drop because it all started so bad. She made some slip ups, but I overreacted. She also was a disasterous mother when drinking, but did much better after quitting. However we got into some fights about pressure she was putting on children. One day I totally snapped on her about her parenting, and though it was valid points I had/made, I handled like a monster. She walked out, a week later we talked thru it, a week later she went out with party girlfriends, then she ended it with extreme contempt for me. All summer she partied her brains out, telling people she just got out of abusive relatipnship with crazy, psychotic guy, that she needed PFA from, was scared of, etc... and her 25 yo girlfriends helped spread the story for her. She speaks soo terribly about me that I've lost confidence in myslef as a human being. My 4 long term girlfriends before her are all great friends of mine, and all said I was amazing boyfriend to them, and laughed at suggestion that I was as the ex described me this summer, yet I don't feel better. I feel I pushed her back into drinking, and let down her children who are once again down to one mother who has getting drunk as a top priority in life. Can't figure out if I earned this one by losing it on her and calling out her parenting, or if I was just never going to win in the long run over her drinking any party friends, and that was excuse she needed to get out. 8 months ago she wrote me nasty email, telling me what a lousy person I was, and while 80% of it was crap, a good 20% was very valid. She also said ill never speak to you again you don't deserve that from me, I'm blocking your email address and phone number so you can't contact me, goodbye *******. Ive seen her out three times since, with her party friends, she is NASTY every time. She hasn't contacted me at all, and she didn't respond to two letters I mailed, one 6 weeks after nasty email, and the other 10 weeks after nasty email. Her refusal to talk, and her outright hatred of me (which she has even gone out of her way to tell MY friends how terrible I was to her), still leaves me scratching my head... am I that bad of a person?? I can't seem to feel content with any explanation I can come up with over what the hell just happened. Prior to that blow up I had, we had one of the most memorable weekends ever with her, I, and her children off on a winter getaway. From that, to I'm abusive *******. Yes, I'm lost over this whole thing, even though apart nearly as long as we were together. BTW we did talk marriage and having our own kid together, in our time together.
CaliBabe Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 - Together for 6 1/2 years - Broken up 5 months - This is the second major breakup - He ended it ultimately - Every waking moment
lalalandman Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 This sounds fun - 4 1/2 years together - Almost 6 months broken up - Very off and on relationship - I'm technically the dumpee - Do I miss her? Not particularly.
dicky_fish Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Together 3 1/2 years Broken nearly 5 months Second time She did Every single day
aviva_dawn Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 - Actual dating time: 8 months. FWB for six months. - Three Weeks - Second Time - He dumped me - I miss him.....mostly because I hate being alone most of the time. I'm working on dealing with that.
beachwrangler Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 We were together for about 2 years. We've been broken up for about a month and a half. This was our first break up. She left me. I do and I don't miss her. Everyday I realize more and more I am better off without her. She took me for granted and treated me like ****. Still does actually lol.
lymtal1 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 -We we're together for 3 years- -We've been broken up for 4.5 months- -We only broke up once before- one month before the final when gigs set in. Told her that I wanted to marry her and have kids with her. And really did. She had so much going on in her life for two previous years I didn't want that pressure on her. She said she never knew that's how I felt. I regret her not knowing but don't think it would have mattered in the long run. We stayed together for that month and then she ended it with full blown gigs and freakedoutness..... -She broke up with me -I don't see how it would work but I do wish it would. Maybe someday. I am changing tactics. The push to forget her is not working so I am going to pretend that I am in the 70's and free love is the way. For her and for me. Who knows what will happen is a few years.
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