Glove_slap Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Format should be something like -number of years/months together- -number of years/months broken up- -number of times broken up- -who had the final say in the break up- -do you miss him/her?- Eg. -We we're together for 5 years- -we've been broken up for 2 years- -We only broke up once before- -He/she broke up with me- -Yes/No-
NordicStripes Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 - We were together for 3 years - We are broken up for almost 3 months - This is the first time we've broken up - He broke up with me - Don't know. Sometimes. Yes.
flyguy23 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 together 5 years 1 month broken up this is the third time we've had a major breakup she did like always yes
Buttercup84 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 - Together one year and ten months - Broke up four months - This is the second time - He did. - Always
headsashed Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Together 2 years Broke up 5 weeks ago 2nd time we broke up She dumped me as per usual Ofcourse i miss her
ken_25 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Together for 3 1/2 years broken up for 13 weeks first time we broke up she dumped me I miss her sometimes, not so much her now, but the things we did together.
TheDovic Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 -We were together for 4 years -We've been broken up for 3 months -We have never broken up before -She broke up with me -Yes, I miss her
antz2411 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 -We were together for 4 years -We've been broken up for 3 months -We have never broken up before -She broke up with me -Yes, I miss her havent been keepin up with the people ive conversed here with lately.. what's been up with yours man? everything good ever since she came crawling back?
Ebony78 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Together 9 years Broken up 10 months Second time we broke up I ended the relationship No, I don't miss him one bit
Wesker Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Together for 8 years. Broken up now for 4 months This was our 2nd breakup. She dumped me, again.. Hard to say whether I miss her now, or not. I'm still in that anger stage where I keep wondering about all the lies, and crap she pulled on me.
stargirl259 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 We we're together for 9 years We've been broken up for 1 week We've never broken up He broke up with me I miss him so much!
TheDovic Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 havent been keepin up with the people ive conversed here with lately.. what's been up with yours man? everything good ever since she came crawling back? Hey antz, cheers for asking. Well she didn't technically come crawling back. I mean in the past two weeks she's sent lots of texts and emails and has shown up at my house crying twice (always for different reasons) but she hasn't told me she wants me back, was wrong OR she is willing to change, so I'm still trying to live my life, going out with the lads and looking out for the next one lol. What bout u buddy? Are you and your girl still together after she came back? If so (or not) how you keeping?
antz2411 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Hey antz, cheers for asking. Well she didn't technically come crawling back. I mean in the past two weeks she's sent lots of texts and emails and has shown up at my house crying twice (always for different reasons) but she hasn't told me she wants me back, was wrong OR she is willing to change, so I'm still trying to live my life, going out with the lads and looking out for the next one lol. What bout u buddy? Are you and your girl still together after she came back? If so (or not) how you keeping? dood you know my pops told me some wise words when i was in highschool and ive seen those words here in these forums as well... and that is to never judge a woman by their words but through their actions. man to me your ex wants you back, and i know you know that i know haha that the ball is in your court! if you love the chick i wouldnt give her a hard time at all. yeah its cool to be cautious and take it slow a little bit but if you deeply know that her intentions are good and she wants you back because she misses YOU and YOUR company and not just the thought of you.. then why play games and string it along? just because she hurt you? two wrongs dont make a right 99.9% of the time and thats a fact! but anyway yeh me and my girl are good, shes out of town for until monday for work so im just hanging out with friends and in this forum form time to time. trying to catch up with online buddies if im not out with friends.
TheDovic Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 dood you know my pops told me some wise words when i was in highschool and ive seen those words here in these forums as well... and that is to never judge a woman by their words but through their actions. man to me your ex wants you back, and i know you know that i know haha that the ball is in your court! if you love the chick i wouldnt give her a hard time at all. yeah its cool to be cautious and take it slow a little bit but if you deeply know that her intentions are good and she wants you back because she misses YOU and YOUR company and not just the thought of you.. then why play games and string it along? just because she hurt you? two wrongs dont make a right 99.9% of the time and thats a fact! but anyway yeh me and my girl are good, shes out of town for until monday for work so im just hanging out with friends and in this forum form time to time. trying to catch up with online buddies if im not out with friends. That's what I like about you Antz, you MAN UP!!! Whatever happened to men acting like men dude? You're a breath of fresh air on this site! See, I know I need to man up, but I'm totally brickin myself in case these are just breadcrumbs, and I don't know if I fancy being shot down again. In saying that we both know sittin on my ass will get me nowhere! Can I ask how things have been between you since you got back together i.e. has anything changed? Do u worry about her leaving again?
Tazzy Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Together for 2 years Broken up with NC for a year He broke up with me every 2 weeks for the whole 2 years I broke it off with him after he beat me AGAIN and I called the cops and pressed charges. I miss and love him more than anyone will ever understand----even me
Author Glove_slap Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 dood you know my pops told me some wise words when i was in highschool and ive seen those words here in these forums as well... and that is to never judge a woman by their words but through their actions. Some of the wisest words in entire history of loveshack.
antz2411 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 That's what I like about you Antz, you MAN UP!!! Whatever happened to men acting like men dude? You're a breath of fresh air on this site! See, I know I need to man up, but I'm totally brickin myself in case these are just breadcrumbs, and I don't know if I fancy being shot down again. In saying that we both know sittin on my ass will get me nowhere! Can I ask how things have been between you since you got back together i.e. has anything changed? Do u worry about her leaving again? dood you call it breadcrumbs, small talk, blah blah blah there is always a truth to it just like there is a care to every " i dont care " and thats a fact! its not even fancying being shut down again, if you believe in the love your chick gives you then you shouldnt fear anything man. to me her actions are speaking loud.. i dont giva a crap if shes a woman.. for a person come crying to your door step speaks volumes! fear is nothing but a disease of the freaking mind and it will kill your soul if you dont overcome it. things have been good with me and my girl dood, i mean theres lil problems here and there with her insecurities but its nothing that can't be fixed. i have learned to have enough patience to work through little stuff and thats the crap that really counts in relationships because its the small stuff that happens with regurality and it adds up. i know if i can get that under control things will be fine. i know now that the big things are easier to handle than the little things that add up and thats what i try to prevent from happening lol and its freaking hard sometimes but you gotta keep on with it. and one more thing, most people think being vulnerable and talking about your feelings with your partner is a sign of weakness.. but its not.. a person who can show vulnerability is a lot stronger than a person who hides everything. a person who hides everything is scared, the person who shows everything shows courage/strength.
Kamila Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 We we're together for 2.5 years and we've been broken up for more than a 1 year. We broke up twice. The first time, he tried breaking up with me after been dating for a year, but he took me back in the split second he broke up with me. I think he wasn't capable of breaking up with me at the time. Why........ ? Eventually, 1.5 year later, I broke up with him. Yes, I miss him terribly................
Marianis Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 -We we're "together" for 3 years- -We started a break in the end of february -broke up in june -so we've been broken up for 4 months -He broke up with me - I miss him terribly much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Moth Posted October 16, 2011 Posted October 16, 2011 -We we're together for 11 years- -we've been broken up for 3 months- -We only broke up once before- -she broke up with me- -Yes, very much-
Author Glove_slap Posted October 16, 2011 Author Posted October 16, 2011 I guess it's my turn.. -We we're together for 3 years- -we've been broken up for a year and four months- -We only broke up once before- -she broke up with me- -I'm not sure if I do-
melenkurion Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 The relationship lasted for 8 years. The relationship ended one year ago. There were never any break-ups prior to the final one. He had the final say. I don't miss him at all any longer. I sometimes miss the picture-postcard life that I convinced myself that I had.
Anna84 Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 -2 years minus 1 day- -5,5 weeks- -Broken up 3 times- -I did the first time after 9 months, wasn't sure I loved him or even liked him, second time he did, one month before the final split but regretted it almost instantly, then third time was me in which I regretted it after a few hours, he wouldn't take me back however.- -it's hard to say. He was there during the best time and during the worst time of my life, I also miss the life I had with him and the things we used to do together, the plans we had. I also miss being loved by him specifically, but there were a number of things which irritated me about him. I don't miss talking to him, I don't often miss him physically, although I remain attracted by him. It all seems complicated to me and hard to figure out. The split has caused me to experience insecurity and nerves about the future, if I'll ever find someone good, if I'll be lonely, if I'll be able to build up a life of my own, if I'm strong enough to be content with just me.. I know these fears are only detrimental but rationalising your feelings is an art, I find!!!!!
m.houst09 Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 We where together for 4 years.been broken up for about 4/5 months.only broke up once before but got back the next day.she broke up with me.i miss her every single minute of the day, shes my first love and the love of my life
shayla Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 We were together for almost 3 years I had broken up with him many times because he treated me very badly, relenting every time he cried and promised that he would change Last November he sent me an email breaking up with me and then married another woman 2 months later I found out from the new mrs that he had been lying to me and cheating on me the entire time we were together Miss him? I don't even know who he is
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