schaller Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 (edited) Hi everybody, I won't tell my story all over again but my BF of 3 years (living with me for 2) broke up with me out of the blue about 3 weeks ago: I let him go peacefully, with no reproach and told him I would not contact him again for my own sake but it could if he felt like hearing from me. We identified all the problems in this relationship when we last me: the fact that we got into a routine which made him emotionally satisfied but not physically (lately I had not been satisfied either and let him know. We are both grad students and I think we took each other for granted, worked too much), the fact that I was his first real GF (although he's27), that he doesn't know what love is anymore, that he is attracted to other women... He doesn't know whether he took the right decision and last time he saw me he told me he had to think about us because when he saw me it reminded him of all the things he adored about me and that I might be the perfect person for him. I have not contacted him in 2 weeks and he was supposed to give me back my snowboard (it's in a storage that is kind of far). He actually insisted on returning it to me and I told him he could drop it off. He emailed me 2 weeks ago to let me know he might drop it off during the week (last week) and was going to email me to let me know when. He never did. What's up with that? I don't get it. I asked him to drop it off and I would pick it up after (he does not have to see me). Nothing though and I refuse to ask him about it again. I hate the fact that he's dragging the whole thing. I just want it to be over. Today I was at a bar with some friends and I saw one of his friends walking in. She saw me and I immediately knew he was going to come soon. I was about to leave when he came in. I saw him but he didn't. I left immediately. I have been doing OK for a week but it just hurts so bad to see him again, going about his business, having drinks with his friends, not having a care in the world, basically being fine with me out of his life.He freaked out though when I told him I was going to remove all the pictures and delete all evidence of him in my life.I also unfriended him on FB but one of my friends who is still FB friends with him told me there are still all the pictures of us together on his FB. I need some advice/opinion. Why has he not given it back yet? What to do? Will he even come back? Does he even think about us/me? Breakups suck, especially this one. Edited October 15, 2011 by schaller
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