lostsoul123 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 i finally blocked her on fb so im clear on that i have the same mobile number and she knows it , my last text to her was not pretty in fact i told her to not call me or text me again , i followed up by calling and she dint answer i text back ''i hate you and i swear you will never heard from me again'' the thing is im kinda waiting for an answer and i know i shouldn't i really want to move on!!!! so i make this thread to motivate myself and move on im sad and depressed rigth now but i know i will get through this... any advice . help, opinion will be gratefully welcome. NC day 0
sadprincess Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 hey....i hear you buddy. going thru it too....i send nasty texts to him...tellin him i hate him, i will never contact him (fail) and tell him to never contact me (no fail). i think i started a million threads saying i'd go NC...but broke it everytime. so i need to stop. but i said the last evil thing to him....so i need to salvage MYSELF because i'm sure i made him hate me by now. i write like crazy on here....it helps me instead of contacting him. so bookmark this site....and everytime you feel down...someone else always seem to be in ur shoes and if they're in ur ex's shoes...you can ask them questions and at least get an idea. reading other peoples experiences at least keeps you thinking less about ur situation. dumpers are evil. and you have to learn to be more evil to them by showing them you don't care for them anymore. NC i believe will be key. so lets me and you brave it out for a true full day NC tmr. let's make them believe that we're finally done with them like they're done with us! its hard. and its okay if you break. because theres always another day to try
Author lostsoul123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 i agree we you and thank you for being such a good person ... we can do this!! you and me are never gonna break NC !!
Author lostsoul123 Posted October 16, 2011 Author Posted October 16, 2011 is day 1 and i already did something stuped....i hack her facebook ...i have to wait 3 hours to login............... im more than nervious and almost 90% shes doing nasty stuff ...... what motivated me to do this phsyco **** was feeling like shes lying about the reason of the breakup......it really dont make sense dont make sense ..... also alots of thread and post in here discovering that ur ex in fact is with someone else and is lying about the break-up to have a backup plan.\ my problem is what should i do when i find out shes doing nasty stuff?? !! i know telling her i hack her facebook is gonna be bad but it is the price im willing to take to know the truth and confront her. i really want to move on and this will hurt i know it but at least i will be calm and knowing for a fact shes a lying slut!! i almost see her face denying everything and calling me crazy or phsyco.. please people gimme ideas to tell her the point is to make her look like a selfish lying bitch
Author lostsoul123 Posted October 18, 2011 Author Posted October 18, 2011 well my friends i started this thread at NC and the first day as i said i hack her fb and finally knew the truthhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! and yes people she have been all over the place hanging with other guys and all lot other stuff .......bitches stuff.. i knew i had to confront her and i did, but it backfired as i still have feelings and she dint give a ****, i cry telling her how could she?? and the only thing she reply is i know what i have on fb ...(calmly tone) we were talking again even having sex ,hanging out. and i never imagine that she can be that person who behind my back . i see stuff that i couldn't never forget.. im heart broken ......and to top that now their friends and familly think im a phsyco ....i needed to know the truth and i did but i never expect this reation of her.....yes she cried but never admit that in her fb were this stuff makin me look like im crazy........ how can she knows what i saw and act like nothing!!!
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