ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 This may seem like a bizarre dating post .... but here goes! I have really ugly feet. If there was one thing I could change it would be my feet. A few weeks ago, I met a youngish man who has a massive foot fetish! I mean this guy just has to put a pinky on a shoe and he's gone! We sat on a park bench and I put my leg on his lap and he touched my shoe ... I told him that I hated my feet so much, how ugly they are, the defects, etc. He contacted me to tell me that he'd like to help me with this limit .... So tomorrow we're going to meet so he can play with my feet. He said if I wasn't comfortable then I can keep my socks on, but that he'd really like to lick them and suck on my toes, etc. In truth, no one has ever sucked on my toes. In truth, I even try to hide my feet from even non-foot fetish guys. I'm actually terrified of pushing this limit, but I want to do so at the same time. I just gave myself a pedicure, and will give myself a final pedicure tomorrow. I almost would rather go to the dentist or jump out of a plane - I'm that nervous! However, he seems so genuine and kind that I really want to try it! But I'm scared to show my feet!
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Well, I think it's natural to feel shy about revealing a body part that's being sexualized and wondering if it is "good enough". Whether that be breasts or feet or thighs or whatever. For me personally, fetishes should be reserved for after you built a connection with someone and then can make yourself vunerable to them and share things you want to share. Perhaps right now is not the right time to let him get intimate with your feet? Would you feel differently if he was more interested in your breasts and wanted to foddle those?
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 Well, for me breasts are very sexual and I'm very proud of my set. He finds feet to be the most sexual thing, I guess. I think if I knew him better, fell in love with him or whatever, then I'd be even more frightened to show my feet for fear of rejection. As it stands, if he is repulsed I'll still feel rejected, but not as rejected as I would if I were in love with him. P.S. We've established that we're not having sex, or getting naked. This is just about helping me get past a limit. And my feet will remain ugly even if he does lick and love them. It won't change that fact. But maybe it will help me feel better.
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 Women's Size 11 Bunions Long toes I told him all this and he still wants to do it!
Cracker Jack Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 There are quite a few guys who simply won't care what your feet look like, as long as they don't stink. He sounds like one of those guys. I'm sorta in that group, too. I'm sure he'll show you a good time. Just try to relax.
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 There are quite a few guys who simply won't care what your feet look like, as long as they don't stink. He sounds like one of those guys. I'm sorta in that group, too. I'm sure he'll show you a good time. Just try to relax. Cracker Jack, really? You have a foot fetish and you'd be happy to help a girl past this limit?!!! You'd actually enjoy it even if they were so ugly? You would be repulsed and barf?
MilfinBerle Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Put your best foot forward. Jump into this feet first. Try to get started on the right foot.
Cracker Jack Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Cracker Jack, really? You have a foot fetish and you'd be happy to help a girl past this limit?!!! You'd actually enjoy it even if they were so ugly? You would be repulsed and barf? To be honest, I'd have no issue helping a girl overcome her limit. I'm just cool like that, tho. I bet your feet probably aren't even ugly. Most men find different types of feet attractive. What's ugly to a few are pretty to others. For all you know, this guy might think your feet are heavenly blessed feet. Just gotta wait and see.
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 LOL Milfin!!!! Hmmmm which foot has the smallest bunion? Guess I better put the right foot forward first! You have me laughing, but I still have such butterflies in my stomach. I'm going online soon to chat with him and set up a meet time. I will re-iterate to him that my feet are ugly and does he really know what he's in for?
AHardDaysNight Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Every foot guy has a different preference for what they find attractive in a female foot. I say this, as someone who has a foot fetish myself. Just go with the flow. If he likes you, he won't be repulsed!
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 To be honest, I'd have no issue helping a girl overcome her limit. I'm just cool like that, tho. I bet your feet probably aren't even ugly. Most men find different types of feet attractive. What's ugly to a few are pretty to others. For all you know, this guy might think your feet are heavenly blessed feet. Just gotta wait and see. Well, I did see an ad on Craigslist once from a man requesting a woman with size 10+, so I guess it's possible. I guess I'm judging my feet based on my standards and not giving him a chance to make up his own mind. I always had larger feet than my contemporaries growing up. Once I was at a birthday party, sleep-over at a little girlfriend's and her mother laughed and pointed so all the others would look and laugh, too. Happily, none of the girls laughed, but I remember feeling pretty upset by the humiliation the mother was doling out, and I wanted to just slink away and be invisible.
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 Every foot guy has a different preference for what they find attractive in a female foot. I say this, as someone who has a foot fetish myself. Just go with the flow. If he likes you, he won't be repulsed! Thanks HardDays. You know, one of his arguments to convince me was that he had an accident and has some stitches and scars and he said, "See, what woman would find those pretty to look at?" He also said I have and lovely face and body and a big heart, and that he really wants to help me with this.
Pompom Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Hi, as an ex-callgirl I can assure you: If he wants you, and he still does after all your concerns about reasons to reject you, then HE WANTS YOU. If you want to make totally sure, email him a photo of your feet. If he still wants you after that, you're good to go. I'm very self-conscious about many parts of my body, but none of my clients ever cared if THEY liked it. Also, many foot fetishists tend to like humiliating or demeaning themselves. "Grovel at your feet" so to speak. And many of them will be more than happy to be presented with "ugly" or dirty feet that reinforce those feelings. By the way, I hate my feet, too.
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 Hi, as an ex-callgirl I can assure you: If he wants you, and he still does after all your concerns about reasons to reject you, then HE WANTS YOU. If you want to make totally sure, email him a photo of your feet. If he still wants you after that, you're good to go. I'm very self-conscious about many parts of my body, but none of my clients ever cared if THEY liked it. Also, many foot fetishists tend to like humiliating or demeaning themselves. "Grovel at your feet" so to speak. And many of them will be more than happy to be presented with "ugly" or dirty feet that reinforce those feelings. By the way, I hate my feet, too. Thanks Pompom, He did say he wanted to kneel at my feet and worship them. It's not fun to not like a part of our body, eh? Maybe this will help me to be less uptight about my feet.
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 I just chatted with him! I told him again that I have ugly feet. He said: "Shhh, don't say anything. Just relax and let me do the job." I can't believe this is going to happen! I'm so touched that somebody is willing to do this for me that I have tears in my eyes.
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 I really think I must need my head examined sometimes! LOL I'm nervous, but oh so excited. My feet are looking good, too, (for my feet that is.) The skin is great and every nail has been exquisitely done up. I have an array of socks and hosiery that I'm bringing. And I even polished my shoes!!!! I'll be leaving in an hour! Wish me luck!
Author ja123 Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 Thanks Cracker Jack!!!!! I'll write an update tomorrow!!!!
Author ja123 Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 Update: Well, here's how it went ... What a sweetie! He told me that my feet are completely fine! The bunions not big or anything ... he says he's seen a lot of different feet and he said it's not my feet that need changing, but what's in my mind. It was a big limit for me. I still will probably get the bunion op because I don't want them to get worse ... but it was really a big limit for me ... and I just closed my eyes to hide the tears. It was a beautiful experience, no one has ever done that for me. I only ever saw us as being friends and that was how it was supposed to be (he just offered to help me with a limit), however, now I think might want more! And there are too many reasons to list why we can't be together in a relationship. Yikes! I really wouldn't mind just being friends though, but he's starting to come off as really needy with the emails he's written me since and I just can't deal with that.
Author ja123 Posted October 17, 2011 Author Posted October 17, 2011 Can't wait to hear how it went! So, that's the update Carrie. (above) Hey, I'm glad to hear that you're seeing someone and that things are looking good. I hope it works out!
Cracker Jack Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 So glad you had a great experience. I knew you were going to enjoy it. And I told you he wasn't going to have any issues with your feet. It's unfortunate that he's starting to show you his needy side now, but at least your mindset on your feet has changed for the better.
Author ja123 Posted October 18, 2011 Author Posted October 18, 2011 So glad you had a great experience. I knew you were going to enjoy it. And I told you he wasn't going to have any issues with your feet. You were so right, Cracker Jack! Your words of encouragement helped me to give it a chance!
OneFootOut Posted October 18, 2011 Posted October 18, 2011 This may seem like a bizarre dating post .... but here goes! I have really ugly feet. If there was one thing I could change it would be my feet. A few weeks ago, I met a youngish man who has a massive foot fetish! I mean this guy just has to put a pinky on a shoe and he's gone! We sat on a park bench and I put my leg on his lap and he touched my shoe ... I told him that I hated my feet so much, how ugly they are, the defects, etc. He contacted me to tell me that he'd like to help me with this limit .... So tomorrow we're going to meet so he can play with my feet. He said if I wasn't comfortable then I can keep my socks on, but that he'd really like to lick them and suck on my toes, etc. In truth, no one has ever sucked on my toes. In truth, I even try to hide my feet from even non-foot fetish guys. I'm actually terrified of pushing this limit, but I want to do so at the same time. I just gave myself a pedicure, and will give myself a final pedicure tomorrow. I almost would rather go to the dentist or jump out of a plane - I'm that nervous! However, he seems so genuine and kind that I really want to try it! But I'm scared to show my feet! Foot licking - toe sucking, can be quite a turn on in a strange way. If you're not too ticklish and squeamish about having your feet handled. I also have large feet (11 wide) and it is actually a preference to some. My only concern or thought to having a long-lasting relationship with any fetish guy is whether or not his fetish will be the prominent 'sexual' connection between you, thus you might get tired of it all the time, or it may become somewhat of a replacement for the sexual needs you might like to experience. Also, if you were in a committed relationship, would licking some other girl’s feet be cheating or permissible? Food for thought I would say just go for it. You might enjoy it, might not, but either way you will have had the experience
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