k100danny Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 so i just went out for a drink with friends, i knew the ex was going to be there with mutal friends. ive had quite a hard time letting go and we recently went for a coffee me and the ex and it was fun to catch up but there was obviously some feeling there still. i couldnt leave it there and we text a bit afterwards and as most do who cant let go i started to dig and ask questions. she said she wasnt seeing anyone but she had kissed this guy a couple of times when she had seen him out. I knew he liked her before we got together. I was quite hurt by this but i obviously expected and wished it wouldnt be true, thinking i was trying to get over her but then knowing i probably was holding onto maybe getting back together even though i know it wasnt a great happy relationship and she didnt meet my needs. soo back to what i was going to say, so i go out tonight and i see the ex as she walks by she taps my arms and says hello as do her/my friends and all is cool we get on with our nights. well i was slightly pre occupied knowing she was there. she had told me she was going to be out that night and i said i dont know if im ready to be in the same place on a night out as i know she is flirty and i didnt want to see that. she said she wouldnt be her usual drunken self and she was going out for food before. I see her again and assume maybe the guy she was with was the guy she went out for food with/maybe a friend maybe a date i dont know. I decide to leave as im not really enjoying myself and i walk past her and her friends on the way out but she didnt see, well i turn the corner and check my phone for a minute, and when i hear something behind me and turn round she is kissing the guy and putting him in a taxi. I have to admit i was a little shocked but it didnt hurt as much as i thought it would do. Maybe because ive had a couple of drinks but im not drunk i really couldnt enjoy myself and drink a lot tonight. Hopefully this is a sign im getting over her, might have made it a bit harder to be friends. I really was wishing to be friends because we were close before but we shouldnt have tried to stay close after when one of us still had feelings. wor of warning if you truly wish to be friends in the future with an ex wait until you have no feelings to make contact and then see if you even want to be. I now have some harsh feelings toward her which maybe unjustified as it wasnt a long relationship and we have been broken up two months but you cant help your emotions. Sorry i just thought i would come on here and vent as i almost text her saying good timing or something sarcastic.
Chi townD Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 Did she realize that you were there after she put him in a cab? That's pretty harsh dude! I'm glad you handled yourself with dignity! She can't take that away from you!
lostsoul123 Posted October 15, 2011 Posted October 15, 2011 i feel so bad for you having to witness that. it may hurt but at least you know now what she have been doing.
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