sweetypielovely Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 (edited) Okay so my BF broke up with me a week ago today. We had a huge fight in case you dont know already. He had been acting a bit distant and canceled 2 dates the same week. I know its irreverent but id hear his cell phone buzz from texts coming in all the time. It was constant and i simply asked who it was texting him all the time when he didnt return my texts or call lately at times. He told me to chill out and that it was nothing and i wanted to believe him but I didnt see him in awhile either. He had been acting weird, and you those out there who can relate- you just know. Then we had a huge phone fight brought on by him and he broke up with me last Friday morning. He texted me the next day Saturday to give him time to chill out and he contacted me on Tuesday the day after my birthday of course. He made arrangements with me to talk on the phone that night but also made it clear he wanted to be friends only before the call in the texts he sent me. He was gonna call me at 9pm and didnt. I waited till almost 11pm and when he didnt call I figured he was ignoring me again and pulled a fast one. I texted him what i had wanted to say for so long because of how he had been treating me. Yes it was mean but it made me feel better. He texted back like he was in shock at everything i said and told me he was putting his sick kids to bed thats why he was late. Like he couldnt text me that? He wanted to know if i meant it. I told him i was mad and wanted to get his attention and he said that the things i had been questioning on last week and then the texts were pushing him away and why would he wanna stay with me. He then didnt text me again till yesterday and told me that he wanted me to know that he wasnt doing anything wrong with his phone and that he didnt cheat on me and wasnt talking to anyone else but friends and family and explained why he was working late for Christmas money. He said that we could be friends and we texted back and forth a bit. Hes a fire fighter and said they had a call and when he got back hed text me but i heard nothing from him last night. Today i called him 3X and he didnt answer at all. I also texted him a hello this morning and got nothing back all day long. These bread crumbs are BS! I would never do anything like this to him. Im so angry right now but i allowed him to do that to me. I was gonna stay friends but how do you do that with an ex number one and with one who wont see you anymore or text back or pick up your calls. I think he was saying this to just brush me off. Hes clearly done and with ONE fight and all relationships take work. Im sitting here feeling bad when in fact i should be happy i saw this side of him now early on. Edited October 14, 2011 by sweetypielovely
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