Should I Move On?

[JaeMisfit]

I went to the lounge with my sister for a friends party. We were approached by best friends one looked like Chris Evans the other Ryan Reynolds (hot guys right) i'm gonna use them for their names to tell the story.

 

I spent most of the night talking to Chris he bought me a drink and we danced to a couple of songs together. My sister was talking to Ryan but she is in a committed relationship so I knew that she was just being polite. I later found out that Ryan was asking questions about me! I exchanged numbers with Chris and he left to go look for Ryan who disappeared. I went outside for some fresh air and Ryan was out there. We talked for a little while and I learned that I liked him more, we had things in common, and there was an attraction I couldn't shake with him. That's when Chris came out and joined in our conversation and I learned how they met and that Chris lives in NJ (I live in NY) and Ryan lives in NY and Chris visits ever so often. As they left Ryan slid me his number and gave me a hug goodbye. I asked him what his BF would think if he knew he was slipping me his number he smiled and said may the best man win. After fighting with myself later on that week over who I would message, I messaged Ryan. We talked for about a week and a half straight and then he went missing for a week. I sent him a text saying happy weekend and making sure he wasnt kidnapped and he joked and said he wasn't but didn't message me again until mon to set up a date. I didn't think anything of it.

 

On the date we had great conversation, found out we had more similarities, and hinted that he wanted to go on more dates so I knew my attraction was mutual. Then he asked why I was single. Which is a hard question to answer for me. I am a 22 year old virgin and when most guys hear that they disappear and I am also told that I have ugly duckling syndrome. Guys don't approach me because they think im too beautiful. Every guy that I meet says I look like Stacey Dash and they put me on a pedastal and as soon as they find out I'm a virgin POOF! But I told him that I never get asked out and I jokingly said that I suffer from ugly duckling syndrome. He didn't believe me. So to make a joke I said I was a serial killer and I kill my first dates, which he laughed at. He said he liked a girl with humor. We went on to talk about other topics when I found him staring at me weird when he thought I wasn't looking so I asked. What's wrong? What do you want to ask me because you're acting a little awkward, was there a question he wanted to ask and didnt know how to ask it? When I said that he seemed taken aback by and his tone toward me changed but he still talked to me and we still had laughs and fun. By the end of the night we walked to my car and we hugged for a long time and he asked if I wanted to come over to finish watching the Yanks game. I told him that I would in 2 dates but for the first date it was too soon. He seemed to understand and he said we would hang again and he hugged me again. Later that night I sent a thank you text which he answered promptly with same here I had a lot of fun . Then that was the last I heard of him. A week had passed by so I decided to text him. I said hey. And he answered hi, how are you!? I said good, just working, how are you and he replied good im working in the city. So I replied oh well I just wanted to say hi and he replied oh thank you. That was the last I heard of him and now it has been 2 wks since our date and no communication.

 

I just want to know should I wait because like I said earlier he disappeared for a whole week before he text me to set up a date maybe he is doing the same now? But isn't the rule for guys to call at least 3 days after the date to let the girl know you're interested or no? Should I stay and hope to hear from him or move on?