ChaseAB Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Me and my gf broke up a week ago. We have had a thing for eachother for the past 10 years, we always talked and flirted and hung out. Re started dating and lived together for over a year. Everything was perfect, we never fought, we were just happy. So I thought. Last Thursday she tells me she's not happy with her life so he wants space and time. I give it to her. I give her until Sunday and ask for her back, she said she's done. I absolutely lose it. I am deeply in love with this girl and I couldn't stand to hear that. She said she thinks it's for the best and only time will tell. We talk a little more and she finally says I haven't showed her how special she is, and how much I loved her. I agreed with her, I have been very stressed out over the past few months and I probably didn't treat her like the princess she is to me. This girl really truely is the girl of my dreams. I have wanted her since the day I saw her. For the past 10 years we have dated other people in between and we always ended up back to eachother talking and flirting. We have had a very strong connection. Over a year ago, we finally became boyfriend/girlfriend. It doesn't seem like long but the relationship we had really brought me close to her. I don't know what to do anymore. When she told me I had been neglecting her I told her I would do anything to show her I am the person she fell in love with. She said to just give it time and her some space so I did. 4 days later I ask her on a date, to her favorite restaurant and the movies. She declined saying it's too soon and that she doesn't know of it's what she wants at the moment. I'm absolutely losing my mind. I want to change for the better! I want to show her I'm the guy she fell in love with and she has had a thing for for the past 10 years. I just need the opportunity, I know I need to go no contact and I have been for a little over a day but I'm dying to speak to her. She was my life, I just didn't show it in the correct way. I need some advice, I haven't eaten in days, I have thrown up everything in my stomach and keep throwing up stomach acid, I can't sleep. When I finally fall asleep I wake up in the morning and feel like complete ****. I want to tell her everything in my heart but I'm afraid it will only make things worse. This is my dream girl, she's beautiful beyond belief, funny, smart, cute, sexy, hard working, strong, and perfect to me. I need her back in my life. I am at rock bottom now and have many stupid thoughts running through my head. Anything will help.
redblack66 Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 You say "She was my life". You is your life. If you do not change this, you will lose her, and likely other females. If she says space, give it to her. I would go NC, and this is learned from experience. Any talking or dating will push her away.
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