sayitasitis Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 There have been a few dates from the online dating website I joined. One-off dates, to be specific. 1.5 have expressed interest to see me again but there was no follow-through. Not all the others were outrightly uninterested, unless they hid their disgust really well. Some even seemed like they were glad I was me. So I don't understand what's wrong here. Sure, I wasn't interested in all of them but what did I do "wrong" for those who expressed interest or who seemed interested not ask me out again? Guys, if you went out with a girl from OLD and you don't hate her, what would make you ask her out again?
fortyninethousand322 Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Guys, if you went out with a girl from OLD and you don't hate her, what would make you ask her out again? I'll have to get back to you when that actually happens . Seriously though, unless there were glaring differences/red flags of some sort I would always ask the girl out again. So I don't know maybe these are really flaky guys, or just aren't interested.
Author sayitasitis Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 I'll have to get back to you when that actually happens . Seriously though, unless there were glaring differences/red flags of some sort I would always ask the girl out again. So I don't know maybe these are really flaky guys, or just aren't interested. They say they would call you or want to see you again and they drop off the face of the earth. If at all, I would like to "know" what I'm not doing or shouldn't be doing here. At least there would be takeaways to make sure that I learn from whatever I need to learn. So you haven't asked a girl out the second time? What did she do or not do that prevented you from going out with her again?
fortyninethousand322 Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 They say they would call you or want to see you again and they drop off the face of the earth. If at all, I would like to "know" what I'm not doing or shouldn't be doing here. At least there would be takeaways to make sure that I learn from whatever I need to learn. So you haven't asked a girl out the second time? What did she do or not do that prevented you from going out with her again? Well, the women tend to be the ones who "drop off the face of the earth" for me so I'm right there with you on that. And it's not that I haven't asked out a girl for a second date, it's just that I've only ever had one girl from OLD actually agree to go on a date (when I write to women they look at my profile and then never reply). We went out twice before she completely disappeared (after agreeing to a 3rd date). So I don't know. I think OLD lends itself to people acting flaky or shady about things. Some posters on here though have had success with it so maybe it just doesn't work for some people.
Author sayitasitis Posted October 15, 2011 Author Posted October 15, 2011 Some of those guys on OLD I went out with didn't seem all that bad. Perhaps most people that are genuinely looking for a relationship and connection don't go on OLD? What about other opinions? What would you ask a girl out again?
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