itshardbeingafox Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 OKAY! Okay... I know. I started dating one of my friends of 5 years. We have been dating for 2 months now. We are both 27. He has a 3 year old son (4 next month), and I have no children. We both work quite a bit. Our first month dating he was wonderful. We took little breaks to see each other, nothing very long but it worked, we would go on our runs together, I would come over and he and his son would cook me dinner, I would do the same for them etc. We never texted much, a few here and there, a phone call sometimes. NOW: I haven't seen him in 2 weeks, flat out. He has a cold. He didn't contact me at ALL on Tuesday and I was about to have a heart attack that something had happened to he or his son. Nothing all day Wednesday until I call at 6:30 and he answers. Talks to me normally for a few minutes, I tell him I was worried Tuesday, he says sorry etc we talk normal. I just tell him nicely to just send me a quick hey on facebook even at night when he gets home if he hasn't contacted me all day so I know he and his son are okay. Or a text.... ya know not asking for much here. Thursday he does it AGAIN. Now it's Friday, nothing so far. I am not contacting him today. I have no idea what is going on. I'm not clingy, we work perfectly together, I never over call or text. 1 text until he responds is the usual. Or no texts until he messages then normal. I don't call unless we have something we need to discuss like plans or he calls me on his lunch breaks. I am SO confused. I guess I'm not really. I know I need to break it off with him or at least have a discussion with him about what is really going on. I don't think a girlfriend should have to know her friend and boyfriend is alive ONLY by the fact that he has been active on facebook in the past 24 hours. I am just SO mad. He has gotten more passes and leeway than any man in the world would have gotten. I'm just mad. I love his son, I have always done anything he needed for he or his son. The last time I saw him he took me to meet his parents and they loved me. They thought I had gone home once I left but he and I met up and were watching tv when they called and I heard them go on and on about how wonderful and pretty I was. How they loved seeing me play with his son etc on and on. SO WHAT IS THE ISSUE? I give him PLENTY of space, I'm successful, I'm confident (usually, this has me a little low), I even bake cupcakes and bring them to he and his son sometimes, from scratch. I'm used to him going on about how we are so great and how he is crazy for me etc. I think I've been dumped in the most immature way ever and he doesn't even have the courtesy to dump me. I'm mad. I'm confused. I'm really hurt.
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