my story

[Babyribs]

OK so here's my story, about a month ago my ex-girl and i broke up, it was an ugly brake up, so ugly that i ended up in jail, well let me back up a bit, on april 16 my ex-girl and i got into a fight and we braking up, in the middle of things i asked her to give me all my stuff back, all my stuff is everything she has in her house, meaning her bed, ent center, tv, tables etc. she said no, so i called the cops and went to her house to pick my stuff up, she lied to the cops and said that that was not mine, that i had no proof and no receipts, well at this point the officer told me to take it to small claims, ok so i left and when i got home i called her and asked her if we can come to an agreement she said NO, i said bring my stuff back or i will go pick it up, she hang up the phone up on me, so i went back to her house at which point she called the cops after attacking me and scratching me up, i got arested for criminal tresspasing and being charged with a class c felony because i wanted my stuff back. i was in jail for about 5 days, when i got out i was served with and order of protection saying i couldnt come near her etc. at this point i went to small claims with my receipts and file 2 claims against her, so last wed i was hanging out and broke down and called her, she was so happy to hear from me and she came over my house, she kissed me so good and told me she was sorry about everything, she the left after huging and kissing me saying she thought i hated her, i said no how can i hate you i love you unconditionally no matter what happened, she then left we talked again the next day and again the following day, on sat she came over we had a few drinks she said she loves me and that shes so weak around me, we made love that night, she went home, yesterday we spoke a few times and i was going out i told her i look really good she said i have to see that so she came over, saw me and said i look really hot, we kissed and she said stop you make me want you so much, so i stoped, i asked to come back and she said no i cant i have plans, i said with who your man, "this 20 year old guy has been staying in her house since the brake up" she said he's not my man and i havent slept with him, i said you sleep with him in your bed and you havent slept with him, i said i am not stupid, she looked right at my eyes and said is not like that we are just friends, anyways whatever, she then left and i called her she said i want you to be happy, do what makes you happy dont hang on to me, i said you are what makes me happy in that case i am coming over to make love to you, she laugh so did i, she then said to move on, i said is that what you want she said yes, i said ok well then thank you for everything i am moving on from this minute on, you take care, bye and i hung up the phone, later last night around 230am i called her again to find out her "20 year old friend was sleeping with her" i told her you wont spend the night with me but you can spend it with him, she then said dont call me again or i will call the cops, ofcourse i havent call again, but i am confused, she wants me, she loves me, but she doesnt want to be with me. i dont get it. can someone please help me and tell me what to do.

[moimeme]

I think you two are trouble for each other. Both of you need to get yourselves sorted out - possibly with therapy - and move on to better, healthier relationships.