Zabs Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Facebook...IMHO is the bane if life for many people. Detagging, unfriending, blocking, using statuses as a tool for embarrasment etc... I heard on the grapevine, that apparently, my ex is widowed! Funny that since we were never married! PMSL The thing is that wjat the ears hear the mind believes..true...but in reality, it's reverse psychology at it's best! LOL The thing is, I am so attuned to these things, the REAL message is being drummed home to me and is as obvious as a neon light:D:lmao: A slightly entertained by the moronics of life, Zabs xx
MIK1000 Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Facebook...IMHO is the bane if life for many people. Detagging, unfriending, blocking, using statuses as a tool for embarrasment etc... I heard on the grapevine, that apparently, my ex is widowed! Funny that since we were never married! PMSL The thing is that wjat the ears hear the mind believes..true...but in reality, it's reverse psychology at it's best! LOL The thing is, I am so attuned to these things, the REAL message is being drummed home to me and is as obvious as a neon light:D:lmao: A slightly entertained by the moronics of life, Zabs xx Yeah, I just made a thread after noticing I'd been detagged in a couple of photos. I almost want to respond with by detagging her in my photos, but why sink to her level? The whole widowed thing is pretty bizarre, obviously shows she is in a strange state of mind.
Author Zabs Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 I posted in a thread before about him being widowed....but if you read between the lines...it is just another game to get me to respond! He is irritated that I appear no bothered and feels like he is losing control...and me..so he up's the ante...but little does he realise that he is revealing more and more about his feelings out of desperation...which is what he should have done much earlier and we wouldn't be in this horrendous mess! MK - It's a he...and he has BP like me which accounts for the swings in mood But nether the less, extreme! The detagging issue though...that is also a game. However, some people say we are all playing a game whether you choose to play your move or not...but IMHO, your move doesn't have to be destructive, manipulative, childish and obvious does it? I suggest your move should be No Response...wait and see what she does next..because it's clear she IS bothered despite what her transparent actions try to infer.. Zabs xx
MIK1000 Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 I posted in a thread before about him being widowed....but if you read between the lines...it is just another game to get me to respond! He is irritated that I appear no bothered and feels like he is losing control...and me..so he up's the ante...but little does he realise that he is revealing more and more about his feelings out of desperation...which is what he should have done much earlier and we wouldn't be in this horrendous mess! MK - It's a he...and he has BP like me which accounts for the swings in mood But nether the less, extreme! The detagging issue though...that is also a game. However, some people say we are all playing a game whether you choose to play your move or not...but IMHO, your move doesn't have to be destructive, manipulative, childish and obvious does it? I suggest your move should be No Response...wait and see what she does next..because it's clear she IS bothered despite what her transparent actions try to infer.. Zabs xx We really shouldn't play our move as you say, not responding is speaks volumes, especially since I (maybe you too) am the one that has the right to be angry and bull silly moves like detagging or deleting photos. It's a strange move because there's a good chance that I would not even notice the photo's were gone. Maybe this is just the second sign that NC from me is getting to her (after 1 month nc she text me to see how i was). So you're not friends with him anymore on facebook? They must assume that we still check their page often, even if it is set to private. I've not checked hers in a couple of weeks, I've finally got the self control to stop myself going on it.
Author Zabs Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 He has set it very INTENTIONALLY to show certain things and not others, but then I have never pretended to be anyone else but who I am to gain access to his...because I really don't care. I check him on search because it indicates what mood he is in and what I have to prepare for. This has been going on a long time MK...Basically, he is a really frightened man with mental health issues...who is acting like an ar**! She IS bothered definitely..especially if she is texting you...at any time. Think about it...if you don't care at all about a person...what would YOU do? I pretend I never knew them to begin with....and I am good at it too. However, that's not how I feel about P...and I know what is going to happen next...I always do Don't contact....she will try again...but be prepared for it to be somthing bigger....because as she sees it...the picture thing HASN'T got your attention...and that's what she wants...she wants to know that you still care...and she will do whatever to find out...trust me...I'm a Counsellor! lol Zabs xx
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