loveburden Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 okay so my ex told me that he really cares about me and said that we don't work in a relationship and that he wants to be friends. he told me that he does not want to talk alll the time, that he just wants to check up on me every few weeks to see how i am going. i told him that i love him and that if were are not going to be in a relationship anymore than i don't want anything at all. he was pressuring me at alot, coming up with excuses why we should keep in contact but i stood my ground and told him that if he does not want a relationship with me then i want no more contact. he got very angry. he began yelling me, telling me how immature i was being by running away. i still said that i did not want to be friends, that we have to much history and that it would be best for me to talk anymore so that i can move on with my life. he then yelled me and said well if you really don't want me in your life hang up the phone. so i did. then i recieved a message from him saying " wow, your finally being honest. thank **** for that." i did not reply to him. was i right to do that? he was only going to use me wasn't he? i need advice. please help me.
Author loveburden Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 thankyou for saying that, i really appreciate it. you made me feel tons better = D i am actually suprised within myself that i was able to stay strong to him. i have mixed emotions at the moment. i am excited about my life and know that no that things are going to get better, i will be stronger and wiser because of this. some things just aren't meant to be , and life goes on. thanks again for your feedback = D
norajane Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 You absolutely did the right thing. Because any guy who would do this: he got very angry. he began yelling me, telling me how immature i was being by running away. i still said that i did not want to be friends, that we have to much history and that it would be best for me to talk anymore so that i can move on with my life. he then yelled me and said well if you really don't want me in your life hang up the phone. so i did. then i recieved a message from him saying " wow, your finally being honest. thank **** for that." is NOT your friend, nor does he have any clue how to be anyone's FRIEND. You are much, much better off without people like him in your life. There are much better people out there.
69ways Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Friends dont break each others heart.....period. He sounds immature and with huge ego. Stay away from him but don't listen to the users that say there are much better people out there. They might be many better people out there but do you really fit with them better than the ex. Dont forget the same better people out there have access to your ex also. If he is the man of your life, you cant find better. The issue is , are you his? Let him be, don't be friends, go NC and if its meant to be , he will come running.
Farrah Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 That means be my rope while I jump another...lol. okay so my ex told me that he really cares about me and said that we don't work in a relationship and that he wants to be friends. he told me that he does not want to talk alll the time, that he just wants to check up on me every few weeks to see how i am going. i told him that i love him and that if were are not going to be in a relationship anymore than i don't want anything at all. he was pressuring me at alot, coming up with excuses why we should keep in contact but i stood my ground and told him that if he does not want a relationship with me then i want no more contact. he got very angry. he began yelling me, telling me how immature i was being by running away. i still said that i did not want to be friends, that we have to much history and that it would be best for me to talk anymore so that i can move on with my life. he then yelled me and said well if you really don't want me in your life hang up the phone. so i did. then i recieved a message from him saying " wow, your finally being honest. thank **** for that." i did not reply to him. was i right to do that? he was only going to use me wasn't he? i need advice. please help me.
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