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Was she trying to make me jealous or is she just a flirt


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So There is this girl we have got really close over the past 6 months, we always flirt and one time when I was drunk she asked repeatedly what I thought of her. Few weeks later after asking my friend for an hour if I liked her, she told him she does not see that way (after my friend said I don't think he see's you that way). The next day over dinner she said we should just remain friends since we work together.

 

She always keeps telling me how she thinks I am hot and I am very attractive. We flirt so much and hang out so much that everybody thinks we are dating. Few weeks ago we got into a discussion and she kept telling me how friends can't just be friends and they are either past lovers or future lovers. So I was about to tell her (the next day) I like her, and she stops me and calls me a creep, and ask me, if Ilike her. I completely deny it.

 

So these days she starts telling me how I'm cute, and points out mannerism and other small things (like when I get mad at her, or even when I snore ) and calls those things cute. She also told me she only wants to go out with white guys (i'm south Asian), since she had a bad experience after going out with someone out of her race. On separate occasion she told me if I was white she totally go out with me. She also keeps telling me I'm such a nice guy and keeps telling me how, we are similar. We also always have this moments where we stare into each other eye's. If you were to see us on the street or any where you would think we are a couple. Few weeks ago I was talking to a friend of mine who was engaged and my friend claims till mentioned to the girl, that my friend was engaged she was not to happy to see her talking to me. But after I mentioned that her face "lit up"(so my friend claims).

 

Having all that said there is the guy friend of her's who she is very close friends with and she flirts with him as well.So the other day I saw her go wrap her hands around his and lean on his shoulder. I asked her why doesn't she go out with him? She told me he is younger, knows her to much and not good looking. Right after that she mentioned, he said the same thing about you and me. In my opinion I think there is a lot chemistry between me and her (other people also think that as well). But she is flirty with this guy as well, so is she just a flirt and not think of me that way?

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Sounds like she just likes the attention.

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