snug.bunny Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 I got my period in the middle of sex and blood stained his sheets and mattress We spent rest of the evening wiping it off. We fell asleep in each other's arms. Sometimes less is more......
Star Gazer Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Yes, I am going to stop posting. And you SG, need to get a life. I have one, a pretty good one at that. Thanks for your concern.
make me believe Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Holy sh*t you and your bf have one f*cked up relationship.
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 And who are you to judge what is "normal"? Normal is what two people in the relationship perceive it to be.
make me believe Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 If you think your relationship is "normal," that implies that it is healthy and working for you in a way that is positive and mutually beneficial. So if that's the case, why the constant drama and angst?
betterdeal Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 So in the space of two weeks you've gone from feisty, sex starved, angry woman to reflective, weepy, slightly maudlin woman. And your period has just come on. Perhaps there's a relationship between your menstrual cycle and your mood.
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 Because it's in my nature. I would probably be the same in any relationship.
anne1707 Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Anne, most of my past threads actually got deleted because of fighting and too many flaming posts/infractions. I had nothing to do with it. Strange. Because usually a thread that has a lot of fighting on just gets closed, not deleted. How come it is just yours that get so easily deleted? As for your latest thread which you allege can say nothing about yet you come here to restart it basically - there was no flaming etc in that. The only bad things were being said by you about your boyfriend.
anne1707 Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Because it's in my nature. I would probably be the same in any relationship. That to me sounds as if you believe that the way you are behaving in this relationship is typical of you and suggests that you don't want to change either. If that is the case, why bother posting here? I guess maybe we could all just stop posting on your threads. After all why bother if you do not want to change and have a more stable relationship/life? The usual trend is that if views contrary to your own and maybe critical of you are posted, you disappear from the thread never to return and will just start a new one a day or 2 later. It is all endless drama and ofcourse you get your external validation from all the attention you receive here.
oaks Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 He asked me to make a deal: I never talk about my exs again and he will never watch porn. I agreed. Interesting trade! He attempted to kiss me and to have sex. Yay! You wanted more of this! I resisted at first and told him that I don't want to force him. He claimed that he really wants to and that you can't techinacilly force a man to have sex. So we did. I got my period in the middle of sex and blood stained his sheets and mattress We spent rest of the evening wiping it off. We fell asleep in each other's arms. Oops. I hope neither of you were too freaked out by this. File under "sex can be icky sometimes". This morning, he tried to make out with me. I guess he is attempting to be more sexual. I am actually not quite sure if given all the conflict, this relationship can be saved at this point. Well, this small update sounds positive, so why not?
Art_Critic Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 And you SG, need to get a life. Indeed....
Kamille Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 He attempted to kiss me and to have sex. I resisted at first and told him that I don't want to force him. I'm going to let you in on the (not so) best kept secret to a happy relationship: When a partner does something you've been asking him or her to do, do not dismiss or resist it. Even if the only reason the partner is doing something is to please you. That would actually mean that they care about you enough to want to meet your needs. That they trust you enough to think your requests will benefit the relationship. So don't resist. Be thankful.
Els Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 I'm going to let you in on the (not so) best kept secret to a happy relationship: When a partner does something you've been asking him or her to do, do not dismiss or resist it. Even if the only reason the partner is doing something is to please you. That would actually mean that they care about you enough to want to meet your needs. That they trust you enough to think your requests will benefit the relationship. So don't resist. Be thankful. Great insight, K. I agree wholeheartedly.
Star Gazer Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Indeed.... Again, Art.... Is your sole purpose on LS to follow me around and attack me? It's honestly getting strange at this point.
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