CaliBabe Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 This is just an observation. But has anyone else noticed that now summer has come to an end the exes are making contact? I have seen numerous posts on here about exes making contact and asking to get back together. I always wondered about this when there were so many breakups during summer/right before summer started. Is it the holidays coming up? People are bored now that summer is over? ...Anyone else noticing this trend?
wilsonx Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Yup, HeartOfAPhoenix posted this back in June/July that this is the trend and he was spot on. My ex twice has tried to make contact but Im not falling for her games any more.
Buttercup84 Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 It is spring here , and I wonder of he will contact me again in autumn. Maybe people see summer as a time for romance and flings . In winter they want someone to cuddle and love . People are weird .
lalalandman Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 She ****ed John Travolta. Even if she comes back, she'll never be able to forget him.
EgoJoe Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 She ****ed John Travolta. Even if she comes back, she'll never be able to forget him. Lala...where is your head at bro?
lalalandman Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Lala...where is your head at bro? Lol, thanks for the Basement Jaxx reference. I dunno, the movie Grease came to mind when I read this post. Just bein (sorta) jokey.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Yup, HeartOfAPhoenix posted this back in June/July that this is the trend and he was spot on. My ex twice has tried to make contact but Im not falling for her games any more. I did make that prediction and to be honest I'm not at all surprised that this is beginning to happen. Wilsonx witnessed this prophecy, with major breadcrumbs, recently as the colder months begin to set in. I am going out on a limb here, because statistically this prediction is improbable. BUT I predict that during the months of March to July of 2012 more dumpers will attempt reconciliation with their dumpees that were dumped around the summer time of 2011. This is usually the time where most breakups occur and I will tell you why I am setting this prediction and why I feel strongly towards this happening. I still expect there to be many breakups during the time frame I specified; however, I suspect these breakups will have a "going back to ex" trend. The 1 year from breakup date will clear the air of most resentments towards the other parties and both people will be able to experience dating other people, mainly the dumper. I sensed that the majority of breakups this past summer were linked to GIGS, mild to severe cases. Homebrew stated in a few of his threads that it takes years for someone with gigs to come to terms with themselves and possibly try to make amends with the dumpee (please note, he also stated that 1 year is WAY to soon for a reconciliation attempt and I predicted that the dumper would make an attempt, meaning: it's probably not a good idea to take them back just yet if this prediction falls true in your case). At the time of my prediction I expect to see many threads titled "He/She left me for their ex" and "dumper from 1 year ago wants to get back together", obviously both are from opposite sides and equally confused in what they should do. The dumpee will also go through many changes during this 1 year window of opportunity. Their outlook on life, physical appearance, maturity, ect may change drastically and hopefully for the better. They also stand a very good chance at moving on to the point where they do not want their ex back and may not even have the temptation to go back with them. People want what they can't have, and with the dumpee's changes the dumper will see a new and improved version of the one they left... at this point I suspect many dumpers will believe they made the mistake of their lives (I assume because of the many kind people I have come into contact with here on LS). Please do not use this prediction as hope that they will eventually come back. The reality of the matter is that a lot of dumpers won't come back, I'm just making a prediction and am not stating fact. Even if my prediction DOES come true in your case do not hold yourself back because of your ex. Use this time to find your boundaries, enjoy life, and improve yourself as a whole. 1
carhill Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Still crickets, though a bit fewer the last couple nights, in my neck of the woods. Got four, plus a few MW's and haven't seen a one. Left the light on for them and everything. Oh, well.
Zabs Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 It is spring here , and I wonder of he will contact me again in autumn. Maybe people see summer as a time for romance and flings . In winter they want someone to cuddle and love . People are weird . That's kinda how I see it too although I am not sure my situation fits in with it...but totally right...it is weird. As an afterthought...I am the type of person who is confident in their own skin..and although not vain appreciate the way I look. Could it be that the ones that need to have flings or whatever in Summer are not? I actually get peed off with the attention I get because it is usually about aesthetics...which mean nothing to me..If I got minced up in a horrific accident, I would still love myself because I appreciate the person within..Forget the green eyes shi*! lol Zabs xx
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