Bsham Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 I have been moving on well. Been 1.5 months since break up. Feeling happy then I wake up one day and think "dam, I miss her". This has happened twice so far and each time a few days later I been back to normal again. Is this normal for the pain to keep cycling back?
ken_25 Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 yeah it's normal, a month and a half isn't very long. I'm 12-13 weeks out and I still find myself doing that. I still dream about her a couple times a week. It'll pass.
k100danny Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 I hope it's normal as i get this too. Im 2 months out of a not very long relationship with someone who was very close to me before this and i still find myself feeling ok then not, the ups and downs are quite dramatic and i quite often wake up and she is the first thing i think about, also can be the last thing to try and get out of my mind before going to sleep also. Im sure i will get there in the end and you will too, i wish there were an easy way but i guess there isnt. and being an emotional person and missing someone isnt a bad thing or anything to feel ashamed of. be kind to yourself and realise that these feelings will happen and it shows you have a heart.
CaliBabe Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 Yes this is totally normal. I am going on 5 months and WHAM just this month I saw a photo and was brought to tears. You'll have your moments, it's all about getting back up and moving forward.
musicSaves12 Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Hang in there! I still have trouble with thinking about my ex but I just talk with friends and hang out and soon feel better. Sometimes sleeping is tough so do something active and your mind will be tired so you aren't thinking in circles all night.
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