jormungand Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 Posted my story in a previous thread. Concise version: Great lovey dovey relationship with a beautiful girl. 5-6 months in she asked for space to deal with school stress, then it turned into a break, then it turned into 'i don't desire a relationship right now'. She has since said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore, doesn't love me, and I found out she moved back in with her rich, but abusive ex (someone who she promised herself she would never go back to and that she absolutely 'hates'). She doesn't know that I know this though. God bless catty female mutual friends. I treated this girl the best ever, but I seriously cannot get her out of my head. It's been over a month and I feel like this just happened yesterday. I've been keeping myself busy, working out, and it's just not helping. With the loss of this relationship, I've also lost my best friend and have nobody to talk to. Any help is appreciated.
k100danny Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 I also felt id lost my closest friend and had nowhere to turn to. the best advice i can give you is this. Would you be happy knowing she wasnt happy with you? that is in no way trying to make you feel bad, what im saying is you wouldnt want someone to stay in a relationship they werent truly happy in and you wouldnt want someone who wasnt totally happy being with you. there is someone out there who will be a lot better match but i know it is hard for you to see it right now. i also try to think of it this way, its ended now and it could have gone on a lot longer and hurt a lot more when it eventually ended. it ended now so it probably could not have been stopped. try to think of the good things and think of it as a learnign curve and try to understand what your needs are from a relationship and how to spot others needs too for a good match.
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