Hungryhuman Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 This might be long but bear with me......My ex girlfriend and i have been dating for 10 months and she broke up with me. this is the third time the first time she was trying to break up with me but called me back hours later saying she made a mistake. the next day we got drunk and i was hurt from the night before and we were fighting so out of anger i broke up with her and we got back together the next day i regretted it. Then about 2 months later she broke up with me for good after a big arguement. i did limited contact with her for 3 weeks and she was the one always talking to me not being able to go more than 4 days without talking to me, but everytime she did talk to me she just yell at me for things i did and blaming me and i calmy took it not saying anything back. Then i got tired of waiting and wanted to know for sure so i called her and she was angry and told me there is no point in being friends its not going to lead anywhere we are not going to get back together and it was pointless, i asked if there was someone else and she said yes and that she made out with this guy couple days after we broke up and a couple more times and she never told me, funny thing is about a week after she has been getting with him she said she still loves me more than a friend and it could work out and she wouldnt fight it, but days later we got into a fight and i apoligized but she didnt answer. then i called her like i said and she told me she doesn't love me anymore and wants me out of her life and that she is happy with her new friends she hangs with everyday and the new boy who is in jail right now, what do you guys think did she say it in anger or did she really mean it? and we broke up cause we fought a lot of silly things but always made up, we had a meaningfull relationship and hungout bassically everyday. She is 17 and i'm 19 she is in high school and my friends are telling me its a phase and she is going on a power trip because she never had good friends before and she does now. its just confusing cause she told me a week before she still loved me and can't just stop loving me and now she tells me theres no point in being in eachothers lifes when i called her she was pissed off the whole time even when i just said hello. help me out please give me advice, experience etc. Also before me she dated a dude for 2 years and he said horrible things to him and she hungout with him months later while she was with me but hes gone now.
Zabs Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 17 and 19? U have your whole life ahead of you to get into daftness like this...good advice from Fats, put it down to exp and move on...there is a whole world out there... Zabs xx;)
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