Besmy Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 Hello friends, I started earlier a thread about my new boss. I had interacted with him before he became my boss and there was no winking or flirting at all. He is not the type, quite the opposite. After about a month from becoming my boss and after catching me looking at him intensely (he's f.ng handsome, precisely my type and I admire beauty in every form...) probably more than once he started winking at me with increasing frequency that now is daily. Today I had the absolute confirmation that yes, he is flirting. No more doubts, no misinterpretation, no tic, no habit. It's not just winking any more. He has started making jokes and the way he looks and smiles at me cannot be mistaken. Also his body language has changed from the first month. When I pass by or go close to him (not TO him, close to him) he reacts immediately and turns his whole body towards me. And he often blushes when he talks to me. So guys, maybe I should open a thread on the "Law of Attraction in action", it seems to work....... Now the problem is that he is my boss and I work in a strict organisation where such "situations" are not welcome between employees of the same grade, let alone between one and her boss. I keep thinking that I shouldn't look at him any more and try to go back to "normal" and avoid trouble but really this doesn't seem possible. As soon as I see him I start thinking how gorgeous he is and since I am not disciplined enough not to stare at him or look at him when I can I guess he has no doubt about me liking him at all. What would you do in my place?
Sazerac Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 I think the advice given to you in the other thread was apt. How serious are you about this job? If this is a job that you want to keep and build a career in, then do NOT cross that live wire. Be friendly, courteous, and professional, but go no further. If it's just a "stepping-stone" job and you don't see yourself there permanently, then you may consider it with ramifications. I still wouldn't go there just to risk burning too many bridges. And, as it was stated previously, make sure he isn't attached with wife/kids etc. before you take the plunge. Personally, as I said, I would skirt the whole thing. It has the makings of a complete disaster.
nofool4u Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 What would you do in my place? Never date anyone at work, unless you really aren't attached to your job. I don't care how good looking they are. Use your head
mike111 Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 What would you do in my place? I am wondering if you are the only woman he does this with? mike
Lucky_One Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 I keep thinking that I shouldn't look at him any more and try to go back to "normal" and avoid trouble but really this doesn't seem possible. It is possible. You just don't want to do it. Don't be like people who say "I can't do it" when what they really mean is "I won't do it".
MilfinBerle Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Hello friends, I started earlier a thread about my new boss. I had interacted with him before he became my boss and there was no winking or flirting at all. He is not the type, quite the opposite. After about a month from becoming my boss and after catching me looking at him intensely (he's f.ng handsome, precisely my type and I admire beauty in every form...) probably more than once he started winking at me with increasing frequency that now is daily. Today I had the absolute confirmation that yes, he is flirting. No more doubts, no misinterpretation, no tic, no habit. It's not just winking any more. He has started making jokes and the way he looks and smiles at me cannot be mistaken. Also his body language has changed from the first month. When I pass by or go close to him (not TO him, close to him) he reacts immediately and turns his whole body towards me. And he often blushes when he talks to me. So guys, maybe I should open a thread on the "Law of Attraction in action", it seems to work....... Now the problem is that he is my boss and I work in a strict organisation where such "situations" are not welcome between employees of the same grade, let alone between one and her boss. I keep thinking that I shouldn't look at him any more and try to go back to "normal" and avoid trouble but really this doesn't seem possible. As soon as I see him I start thinking how gorgeous he is and since I am not disciplined enough not to stare at him or look at him when I can I guess he has no doubt about me liking him at all. What would you do in my place? Stop daydreaming and get back to work?
stillafool Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Is he married? If the answer is yes, you already know the answer. He probably is a playa and was on the lookout for the easiest prey. I'm surprised you aren't insulted that he didn't have enough respect for you to take you more seriously. Definitely keep your legs closed or you will certainly regret it.
Space Ritual Posted October 17, 2011 Posted October 17, 2011 You better hope after you bang him you are a good enough piece of ass so that he has enough time before you both get fired that he writes you a recommendation for your next job which you will be seeking quite soon at the rate you are going.... unemployed and a lousy lay is no way to go through life, lady...
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