danmorisson Posted October 13, 2011 Posted October 13, 2011 (edited) I read threads like these and it annoys me http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=272583&page=9 I am too ugly to date myself but have learned to live with it. I'm happy. Still love women as people. Heck I wouldn't date me either It's just that I read threads like that one above and it's quite annoying because the reality is -- I even struggle to make any female friends because of my physical appearance. And you have to admit that men are infinitely more diverse when it comes to dating. There is so much fantasy talk over the Net and it does my head in. Edit: In fact men are infinitely more diverse at everything really. Just speaking the truth. Women are rather straightforward. Edited October 13, 2011 by danmorisson
FitChick Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 People have more tools than ever in history to change their physical appearance. If you have a nose like Pinocchio, you can get plastic surgery. If you are fat, eat less and move more. If you stink, take a shower. It's far, far easier to change your outside than your inside. Stop making excuses and start taking action!
Author danmorisson Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 (edited) People have more tools than ever in history to change their physical appearance. If you have a nose like Pinocchio, you can get plastic surgery. If you are fat, eat less and move more. If you stink, take a shower. It's far, far easier to change your outside than your inside. Stop making excuses and start taking action! What for? I can't date women anyway. Heck I'll just come right out and say it. You know how a guys thingly is supposed to go stiff whenever he thinks about naked women? Well, mine doesn't. I just don't view women for sex anymore. I wouldn't be able to have sex with a woman because my thingy wouldn't go stiff. Edit: I keep telling people, I'm in my 30s and I've never even had a female friend before --- and your mind & body kind of adapts to this. It really is too late for me to get a girlfriend anyway Edited October 14, 2011 by danmorisson
mr_sexxxy Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Dating is not the issue for you. Right now, you are looking at some serious and intensive work identifying and then forgiving those who have injured you.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Are you a religious man? You sound like someone who has done all the work you need to and come to peace with a shallow and vacuous world. In times past the path would be obvious for you, become a monk. Be you a Catholic or a Bhuddist or of any faith at all there exist something like it. Retire from this aspect of life and focus on other things, not in hopes that "love will come" but in hopes of being enlightened to other equally important aspects of life. Relationships are overrated, most are transient and sources of 2 pains for every pleasure they provide.
mr_sexxxy Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 That's an interesting take. But judging from OP and based upon your screenname, both of you are quite unhappy. There is a difference between cowardly retreat and genuine search for spiritual enlightenment.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 The OP actually sounds happy with his own situation... what he does not like is hearing other people talk like social relationships are all important. There is life without that kind of relationship. By the by when I choose my name, over a year ago, I was unhappy. I really couldn't care less now.
mr_sexxxy Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Lonely, you are in denial. You say you could care less, but that's a long way from being happy. The OP states he is happy but then contradicts himself by saying he wouldn't date himself, either. He also says he cannot make female friends due to his appearance. Then he says relationship talk "does his head in." There is no way that OP is happy. But, whatever. If you insist that you are happy, more power to ya. I read threads like these and it annoys me http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=272583&page=9 I am too ugly to date myself but have learned to live with it. I'm happy. Still love women as people. Heck I wouldn't date me either It's just that I read threads like that one above and it's quite annoying because the reality is -- I even struggle to make any female friends because of my physical appearance. And you have to admit that men are infinitely more diverse when it comes to dating. There is so much fantasy talk over the Net and it does my head in. Edit: In fact men are infinitely more diverse at everything really. Just speaking the truth. Women are rather straightforward.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Lonely, you are in denial. You say you could care less, but that's a long way from being happy. The OP states he is happy but then contradicts himself by saying he wouldn't date himself, either. He also says he cannot make female friends due to his appearance. Then he says relationship talk "does his head in." There is no way that OP is happy. But, whatever. If you insist that you are happy, more power to ya. Everyone is different. I have family friends and plenty of people stepping to me looking for a sexual adventure. The problem is I lack a real connection, after a while one learns that life can be good even without such a connection. What irks the OP is when people fron't like looks don't matter....when they really do. That fakeness should do anyone's head in.
Star Gazer Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 You're a grown, adult man. Stop calling your penis your "thingy."
Author danmorisson Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 (edited) The OP actually sounds happy with his own situation... what he does not like is hearing other people talk like social relationships are all important. There is life without that kind of relationship. By the by when I choose my name, over a year ago, I was unhappy. I really couldn't care less now. That's exactly how I feel and that's exactly what irrritates me -- It's like life is just one giant porn-ride to most people and I therefore feel outcasted -- totally alienated because most people (most notably women) can't look beyond a life without sex Edited October 14, 2011 by danmorisson
Author danmorisson Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 And before someone replies to disagree. This is true. Women are actually more pervy than men... women get sexual stimulation out of having casual convos with guys that they fancy whereas men look at porn. This is why it's much more common to see ugly women with male model friends than vice versa
ChessPieceFace Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 (edited) I am too ugly to date myself but have learned to live with it. I'm happy. Still love women as people. Heck I wouldn't date me either It's just that I read threads like that one above and it's quite annoying because the reality is -- I even struggle to make any female friends because of my physical appearance. I'm sure Wee Man from jackass gets ladies. So even a midget can get them, they just have to be fun. I think what you are claiming is this - you believe you are too broken (in your case you say looks) to have an easy time getting a relationship, and so you have given up and are comfortable with that. I can understand that and feel the same way. In my case I am too "broken" in terms of personality. I am shy, introverted and I often find small talk to be painful. I could be quite attractive if I tried, and guess what -- it wouldn't help me much. If I were ugly and extroverted I'd have a much easier time. Anyway, if you were TRULY OK with it, I think you wouldn't have made this thread, and you wouldn't have been upset about the things you mentioned. Also, not sure what you mean about diverse, unless you mean that "men like cool stuff, and women like men." In that sense, yeah. Hmm, from your threads so far, I think you might just be trolling... Edited October 14, 2011 by ChessPieceFace
Author danmorisson Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 (edited) I'm sure Wee Man from jackass gets ladies. So even a midget can get them, they just have to be fun. I think what you are claiming is this - you believe you are too broken (in your case you say looks) to have an easy time getting a relationship, and so you have given up and are comfortable with that. I can understand that and feel the same way. In my case I am too "broken" in terms of personality. I am shy, introverted and I often find small talk to be painful. I could be quite attractive if I tried, and guess what -- it wouldn't help me much. If I were ugly and extroverted I'd have a much easier time. Anyway, if you were TRULY OK with it, I think you wouldn't have made this thread, and you wouldn't have been upset about the things you mentioned. Also, not sure what you mean about diverse, unless you mean that "men like cool stuff, and women like men." In that sense, yeah. Hmm, from your threads so far, I think you might just be trolling... Wee man is famous. And no, I am not trolling. Read up on what trolling actually is. Don't go around accusing people of trolling just because he/she points out unpopular truths. Handle it like an adult. And by 'diverse' I mean that men have a fetish for almost everything. Edited October 14, 2011 by danmorisson
ChessPieceFace Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Wee man is famous. And no, I am not trolling. Read up on what trolling actually is. Don't go around accusing people of trolling just because he/she points out unpopular truths. Handle it like an adult. And by 'diverse' I mean that men have a fetish for almost everything. Trolling is stirring up a forum for attention. You made multiple threads bashing women, and also you seem to be lying about the fact that "you don't care, you are fine with things, you like women as people." Except you do care, since you're making the threads, and you don't like women as people since you are bashing them. Therefore, I believe you are trolling. If not, you're just really self-deluded, and are a bitter person who believes they aren't bitter.
Author danmorisson Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 Trolling is stirring up a forum for attention. You made multiple threads bashing women, and also you seem to be lying about the fact that "you don't care, you are fine with things, you like women as people." Except you do care, since you're making the threads, and you don't like women as people since you are bashing them. Therefore, I believe you are trolling. If not, you're just really self-deluded, and are a bitter person who believes they aren't bitter. Pointing out truths does not make you a troll. I said I do not hate women. You're a troll and therefore this is my final reply to you
Author danmorisson Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 It beggers belief the **** people talk over the Internet. Even 'ugly' women are out of my league. I saw this 'ugly' thing at the shops and she oozes with confidence. It's weird, she looks ugly but I still find her sexy. You have to admit that women are more shallow than men
Author danmorisson Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 Look at this butt ugly thing http://www.youtube.com/user/Nichole337?blend=1&ob=4 But look at her standards. A Complete joke. The real world -- you can't get women that match your appearance because they're out of your league too. I feel tempted to post some Facebook pages. Quite a few guys where I live could get any woman they want but they're sitting dating pot ugly overweight women. Every time I look up the female equivalent she's always dating what looks like a bodybuilder
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